Tatyana Dyuzheva (nee Zaitseva) is the wife of the beloved Cosmos from the popular television series “Brigade” in the 2000s. Before Dmitry's girlfriend they thought ladies' man, who not only didn’t intend to get married, but also didn’t think about a permanent relationship. Who is Dyuzhev's wife - Tatyana? And how did the young people meet?
Tatyana Dyuzheva: biography
Tanya was born on June 6, 1981 in Moscow in intelligent family. Her father worked as an engineer-inventor, and her mother was a teacher. The girl’s childhood was not rich, sometimes she even had to wear clothes for her older brother.
Tatyana Dyuzheva has two higher education. After school, she studied at the Moscow State Pedagogical University, after which she acquired the specialty of educational psychologist. The girl received her second financial education in Russian Academy national economy and public service.
At the time of meeting Dyuzhev, Tatyana was 25 years old. She worked as an employee oil company. After the couple legalized their relationship, the girl left the service and devoted herself entirely to her family. Young people gradually began to establish family life in a rented apartment. However, over time, having overcome some everyday difficulties, the Dyuzhev couple acquired their own housing in the capital.
Now Tatyana Dyuzheva takes care of the house and children. The girl settled in secondary school, where he works as a child psychologist. Thanks to her convenient schedule, she can devote a large number of time for your family.
Meet Dmitry Dyuzhev
The actor met Tatiana back in 2006 at a Madonna concert. He noticed a girl in the crowd of spectators and immediately fell in love. According to the actor, Tatyana turned out to be his destiny. During the concert of the famous pop diva, Dyuzhev approached Tatyana and started a casual conversation with her, at the end of which he asked the girl for her phone number.
Dmitry began to actively court Tatyana, but she behaved extremely cautiously and did not immediately trust the popular actor. The abundance of fans and excess attention from women was very frightening future wife Dmitry. However, after some time, the girl agreed to a date and reciprocated Dyuzhev’s feelings.
4 months after they met, Dyuzhev suggested celebrating Tatyana new year holidays V United Arab Emirates. This trip became a turning point in the relationship of the young people. After some time, at the Sochi Kinotavr festival, the artist made a marriage proposal to his beloved girl, which she could not refuse.
Wedding of the Dyuzhevs
The solemn wedding of the lovers took place after two years of dating. The couple legalized their relationship on February 14, 2008 in the Griboyedovsky Civil Registry Office of the capital. The young people hid the wedding date until the last moment, but despite this, fans of his talent were waiting at the entrance to Dyuzhev’s hall. After painting, Dmitry and Tatiana went to Red Square and St. Basil's Cathedral. Ceremonial event On the occasion of the official wedding, the newlyweds celebrated with friends and relatives at the Metropol restaurant.
Six months later, in July 2008, the couple consolidated their relationship in the face of God. The young people got married in church.
Children of Tatyana and Dmitry
The first child of Dmitry and Tatyana Dyuzhev was born on August 7, 2008. Now the actor’s eldest son is already 9 years old. The boy was named Vanya in honor of Tatyana’s relative. The Zaitsev family believes that their ancestor’s name was Ivan Volyak, who was a Pole from the family of the Potocki princes.
The first son of the Dyuzhevs likes exact sciences, as well as playing football with his father. Vanya really wants to be like his dad, but the boy has not yet decided whether he will be an artist when he grows up.
The second child in the Dyuzhev family appeared on January 26, 2015. The boy was named after famous dad- Dmitry. True, the artist himself claims that he was initially against such an idea, believing that it was not entirely modest. However, Tatyana managed to convince her husband.
To date married couple Dyuzhevykh is a standard in the world of show business. So as not to leave your spouse for a long time one, Tatyana visits film sets, and that's all free time spends time between takes with Dmitry. The artist’s wife is his reliable support and faithful friend, supporting all his beginnings and projects. For Dmitry, who has experienced various shocks associated with the loss of loved ones, his wife, Vanya and little Dima always come first.
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Dmitry Dyuzhev's childhood
Dmitry Dyuzhev was born into an intelligent couple from Astrakhan. The boy's father, actor Pyotr Valentinovich Dyuzhev, who graduated from the Astrakhan Theater School, was quite famous in hometown and toured extensively throughout the country. Dima always accompanied his father on trips, so the behind-the-scenes world was familiar to him from early childhood. 
IN primary school the boy studied, as they say, half and half, did not grab stars from the sky, but was not considered an inveterate hooligan. However, after the fifth grade, everything changed dramatically: Dima began to study diligently, took the post of chairman of the pioneer detachment, and soon his photo appeared on the school honor board.
For some time, the young man himself wanted to become a teacher - an excellent student was already trusted to teach mathematics to the lower grades, and his innate sense of justice and compassion helped the young man get along with children. Later, the teenager, eager to do good deeds, was visited by thoughts of a career as a policeman and - the most cherished dream- sailor. While Dmitry was studying textbooks on shipbuilding, hoping to enter a naval school, his father was solving problems with work. Peter could not find a suitable director, and besides, the family was desperately short of money. The man decided to leave the theater and take up a more profitable business. So Dyuzhev Sr. first became the owner of the Boheme cafe, and then the Nastenka store, named after his daughter.
But his acting ambitions did not go away, and Peter decided: since it didn’t work out for him, let his son succeed! He quickly infected Dima with this idea, who at first actor career wasn’t too enticing: “Do you want your fairy tale to never end? Do you want to create it yourself? Tell, invent, play, be anyone? This profession can give you everything.” Dyuzhev decided to test himself for acting “professional suitability” and entered the Astrakhan “School of Gifted Children”. The test was passed - in his senior year, Dmitry organized a benefit performance, to which he invited the artistic director of the Astrakhan Youth Theater; he was impressed by the young man’s performance and assured him to enter GITIS, and if he wasn’t lucky, “we’ll take him in without competition.”
So in 1995, shortly after High school prom Dmitry Dyuzhev went with his parents to submit documents to theater universities Moscow. And everywhere I passed the entrance exams with ease, but still chose GITIS, enrolling in the course of Mark Zakharov, which he graduated in 1999.
Film career of Dmitry Dyuzhev
Almost everything talented actors They start acting in films already as students. But the shy Dyuzhev had no luck - from the third year he walked around Mosfilm, turned pale, blushed, left his photographs at castings, but everything was in vain. Twice he ran home to Astrakhan, doubting professional choice. After college, Dmitry played a couple of episodic roles in films, but the “fairy tale” promised by his father still did not happen. Suddenly luck smiled at him: young actor With virtually no experience under his belt, he was invited to the “Brigade” casting, having found Dyuzhev through a small acting agency. 
Dyuzhev recalls that he came to the casting the morning after the party, so he began his acquaintance with the director by saying: “Hello, my name is Dima Dyuzhev. Sorry, I'm not in today in better shape" To which director Alexey Sidorov just smiled and said: “Yes, I see everything. Come on, sit down” and started asking questions young man about childhood, friends, asked if Dyuzhev knew how to fight and what films he liked. After the interview, Dmitry was immediately approved for the role of Mukha, adding: “We’ll see what happens next.”
And “further” Dmitry was asked to play along with Bezrukov in the role of the joker of the Cosmos. The actor coped with the lines excellently, but decided that he would not get the role - Sergei looked too unfavorable next to the almost two-meter Dyuzhev. But he was wrong - the director was pleased, and Dmitry officially turned into Cosmos.
Dmitry said more than once that before the start of filming he experienced moral pangs, because his character in “The Brigade” is a criminal, a killer, who pulls the trigger without hesitation, and for the believer Dyuzhev, human life has always been valuable in itself. The conflict in the actor’s soul was resolved by his confessor, who advised him to play the role with the thoughts that the hero is an example bad person, perceive it in a moralizing way.
After the premiere of “Brigade,” handsome Cosmos overnight became a teen idol and a favorite of girls. New invitations to auditions were not long in coming: he played in a dozen projects, demonstrating the versatility of his talent. In the film “The Listener”, Dyuzhev, in a duet with Mikhail Efremov, masterfully coped with the comedic image, playing the lover of the wife of the main character of the film, and in the film “Pregnant”, together with Mikhail Galustyan, he amazed the audience with his ability to get used to completely crazy roles.
Dmitry’s recognition was brought to him by Alexey Balabanov’s film “Dead Man’s Bluff,” where the actor, in the company of Nikita Mikhalkov and Alexey Panin, appeared in the image of the “six” bandit Simon. The audience received Balabanov's signature mixture of comedy and thriller with a bang, largely thanks to charismatic killer, studying English language comic book reader and vinyl record collector.
Theatrical career of Dmitry Dyuzhev
As a rule, an actor appears on the big screen after an established career in the theater. In the case of Dmitry, everything turned out completely differently - he returned to the stage as a movie star. His theatrical achievement list“is much more modest than the list of film works that stretches over several dozen, but undoubtedly arouses interest.In 2006, the actor was accepted into the permanent troupe of the Moscow Art Theater, on the stage of which he brilliantly performed Michel in the play “Go Crazy,” Glumov in “Mad Money,” Sir Andrew from “Twelfth Night” and others. But the actor himself considers the role of a priest in the production of “Boris Godunov” to be one of his most successful roles.
In 2011, Dyuzhev graduated from the Higher Courses for Scriptwriters and Directors, and in 2015 he took the director’s chair, becoming the director of the production of “The Bench” based on the play by A. Gelman.
Family tragedy of Dmitry Dyuzhev
Despite his happily established career, Dyuzhev’s personal life is full of dark moments. In 1998, when the young actor was graduating from GITIS, his 12-year-old sister Nastenka died. The doctors fought with all their might for the girl’s life, but they could not defeat the blood cancer. 
Peter Dyuzhev never recovered from the loss of his daughter. Soon he began to drink from the bottle periodically, in 2002 he sold his cafe to a distant relative, bought a luxurious monument for Nastya with the proceeds, and then committed suicide.
“Alone with everyone”: Dmitry Dyuzhev
Less than a year later, my mother, Lyudmila Dyuzheva, died - heart attack. After this, Dmitry led an almost reclusive life for a long time, did not answer calls and did not communicate with friends.
Of Dyuzhev’s close relatives, only his grandmother survived, living in Astrakhan until the day when robbers broke into her apartment and handcuffed the woman to the radiator. Dmitry miraculously transported the elderly woman who survived to Moscow.
Personal life of Dyuzhev
In 2006, true love finally appeared in Dmitry's life. Friends brought the actor to a Madonna concert, but Dyuzhev’s gaze was focused not on the legendary pop diva, but on the slender blonde sitting in front. Dmitry stated many times that he saw her from literally a thousand people in the hall. Having overcome his embarrassment, he approached the girl and spoke, and as a farewell, plucking up the courage, he asked for her phone number. A couple of days later Dima called and invited her on a date.As it turned out, the girl, whose name was Tatyana Zaitseva, was a fan of the actor and could not even imagine that Dmitry Dyuzhev himself would pay attention to her. But she refused to enter into a relationship, believing that the movie star would certainly turn out to be a ladies' man and a womanizer. Dmitry made many touching attempts to win the girl, convincing him in every possible way of the seriousness of his intentions, and the girl quickly gave in under the pressure of the romantic. Soon Dyuzhev proposed marriage to Tatyana.
This year the couple celebrates 10 years since their wedding and wedding. Together with Antenna, the couple walked through memorable places that had become significant in the life of their family.
– Do you remember your preparations for the wedding?
My confessor said: “If you are going to get married, then let your wedding sound throughout the whole village. You won’t get away with it later - he promised in front of everyone, everyone was witnesses. Say it loudly so that later you will be ashamed if something goes wrong in your marriage.” So we wanted to have a wedding within historical walls with a special celebration. We were thinking about renting some kind of estate, so that all the guests could be dressed up in costumes from another era, so that she could play classical music... In the end we settled on Metropol. Architectural style The hotel is modern, it combines classics and innovations. And I'm a fan of the classics. Tanechka’s mother is a teacher, her father is an engineer-inventor - he worked at Mosenergo all his life, launching power plants. According to them way of life the wedding should be more modest, the better. They said: “Dima, understand. We are a Soviet classic couple, far from the artistic world and have never been public.” But we persuaded them, saying that we wanted a big holiday.
It took a long time to choose the dress, together with Dima. They did not believe in the sign that the groom should not see the bride’s outfit before the wedding. By the way, it just so happens that Dima’s opinion in matters of choosing clothes is important to me. Despite the fact that he is a man, he has a subtle sense and, as a creative person, has good taste. At that time, ivory-colored dresses were in fashion - slightly creamy-beige, but we wanted classics, dreamed of boiling white with a full skirt. And they found something like a meringue cake, also studded with Swarovski crystals. On the eve of the marriage registration, we arrived at the same hotel and stayed in the room so that in the morning we could begin the final preparations - putting ourselves in order, dressing up, and welcoming guests.
When they came to look at the rooms, a hotel employee said that Michael Jackson had stayed there. I immediately chose it. My Cosmos in “Brigade” said about the car: “Only me and Michael Jackson have this.” This is how this phrase came to life.
We went to the registry office on February 14, 2008 with a small group of our closest friends and relatives. And when we returned, we changed clothes and went to the large hall of the restaurant, where about 200 guests were already greeting us. They lined up and showered us with rose petals, rice...
There were gypsies, champagne... Everything was real. They organized traditional wedding games - ransoming the bride, recognizing her by a kiss, guessing the ribbon by color. I passed all the tests with honor. Of course, we were incredibly tired, we wanted to sleep, but the first wedding night was a classic one - we sorted through gifts and counted money until the morning. And they were absolutely happy.
– Did you celebrate the anniversary of your most important family event in a big way?
We also celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary at the Metropol, in the same room. True, they have already invited not 200 guests, but much less. At the peak of its popularity was the deceptive perception of true friendship. Over the years, my friends become few and far between. Therefore, the party was not held in a large hall; there was no point in it. Yes, Tanya and I already have a different attitude towards the holidays; we don’t remember the last time we were at a disco.
A few months after the wedding, on July 20, we got married in the Cathedral of St. John the Evangelist. When Dima said that for him this was more important than a stamp in his passport, I heard him. My parents and grandparents have lived in love and harmony for many years, and I understood that the decision to get married can only be made once in a lifetime - it’s forever, you can’t change your mind. Therefore, she easily agreed to the wedding. We were married by Father Andrey, Dima’s confessor since his student days, and later he became our sons’ godfather.
Photo: from the Dyuzhev family archive/Vladimir Shirokov
Asked Tanya to quit her job
- How it all began? Dima admitted to me that he had love at first sight. Do you have it too, Tanya?
Men, it seems to me, always fall in love right away. And women, as a rule, think. At least it took me a year and a half to get married. At first there was distrust. It seemed like being a wife public person not really my story. I thought that it would be difficult to understand the line between Dima the actor and the person. But day after day the feeling grew within me. As I got to know him, I realized how big of a soul and kind heart he had.
Tanechka was partly afraid of my Space (a character from the TV series “Brigada.” - Note: “Antennas”). I probably thought that I was the same.
Well, I also saw “The Island” (Pavel Lungin’s 2005 film, in which Dyuzhev played a clergyman. - Note “Antennas”). I just knew that people in the acting profession are a little more demonstrative and eccentric. But my Dima is different. He knows how to be a super professional in his field, but when he comes home, he becomes a super husband, friend, father, a real sincere person who doesn’t play games. real life.
– Dima probably looked after you beautifully?
Yes, but there were beautiful courtships in my life before him. This is not what captivated me. He showed himself so sincerely in his actions! Despite what I saw: he is young, still a boy, but he is really that wall, a man with capital letters, with whom I won’t be afraid to become not as beautiful and not as young as I am now. I felt in him the same confidence that I felt in my father, my older brother. I understood that he was strong beyond his years and that with him I could overcome anything. He will find every opportunity to provide for me, our future children and will always be my friend. Was I jealous? From the first meeting, Dima showed such love that I believed that he would never deceive me. Although his friends said: “You understand that he always has fans nearby.” But thanks to Dima, he always gave me the feeling that for him there is no one better, more beautiful than me and there will not be anyone. I admit, a couple of times I called Dima to serious conversation. At the beginning of our relationship, he went to America for a whole month on tour, and I understood that I could not wait for my husband at the window forever, that for me love at a distance is extremely difficult. But Dima convinced that there was nothing wrong with it. From the very beginning he said: “There is nothing that love cannot conquer.” And I believed him.
Yes, there was a moment when Tanechka said that she couldn’t come to terms with my constant travel. I remember I received an invitation to star in the comedy “High Security Vacation.” Before filming began, he told Tanya: “Please quit your job. You are there from 9 to 6 pm, and I come home after midnight. I just can't wake up at 9 am. It turns out that we will see you only on weekends, if I have them, of course.” And Tanya left work, although it was not easy for her to take this step. This was even before marriage, we did not have any intimacy - after all, shortly before meeting Tanya, I made a vow to the abbot that I would not have an intimate relationship until I promised the woman to live with her until old age. I remember we arrived for filming, and not far from the village where we settled there was Pskov-Pechersky Monastery. We went there, and suddenly a monk literally ran up to us: “Hello, where are your boys?” Me: “You have confused us with someone else. We are not married yet, we have no children.” But he clearly answered: “You will have boys, and you come to me.” They didn't take it seriously back then. And soon Vanya was born, Dima recently appeared...
We lived in a country boarding house for three years
– They say that love transforms over the years into respect between spouses for each other?
I always remember the original purpose of our marriage and spiritual union. We promised each other to grow old together, to reach the end of our lives together. Therefore, no matter what quarrels and disagreements there are, we always remember that we cannot escape each other. There is no need to find out anything, it is better to reconcile as soon as possible. This will make it easier for us to reach our grandchildren.
And I would say that respect grows, and love transforms into another love, where you stop yourself at the moment of a quarrel, realizing that you can hurt your husband. In a word, you begin to treat your loved one more carefully. If young couples initially prove something to each other - they have passion and defend their own boundaries, so that it is easier to interact in the future, then in our case, after 12 years, it is easier for me to support my husband and agree with him. And Dima became more flexible in many things. Over the years, you understand the price of a short-term and, in principle, causeless outbreak, from which your loved one will then suffer. This understanding has not yet fully arrived, but it is coming. At the same time, I began to better feel Dima’s creative experiences, realize that he has a difficult and not at all festive profession, and began to treat my husband more carefully when he comes home after work. He does what he loves, and it is important for me that Dima comes out with a smile to the viewer again and again.
– This is the essence of women’s wisdom.
And men's too. Dima is a believer, and he brings a lot of Orthodoxy to our home. It is important to take care of each other, and a woman needs to give in to some things, because she is a woman. Dima once told me: “Every day we must understand that we will really stay with each other until the end, even if each of us changes greatly due to certain circumstances or life events.” This is the transformation of love we have experienced over the years together. We both have also changed because we became mothers and fathers twice.
I was constantly developing in my profession, graduated from the directing department, wanted to get a third - political science - education or graduate from a seminary. But in last years I began to understand that happiness does not lie in self-education and self-improvement, but in the family. Value human life depends on the number of people who depend on you. And if I do not participate in the development of the character and personality of children, then they will grow up without me. The worst thing, as spiritual fathers say, is to raise your child incorrectly. In heaven they will definitely ask: “Where are your children? What are they? And why do they, born by you, bring negativity into life?” After death, only the memory remains of a person.
With Dimin’s busy schedule, we don’t have the opportunity to sit down for dinner. But when my husband has a day off, he treats us all with incredible trepidation. Together with my family we are going to New Year We're spending our holidays. I have two nephews, they are friends with our sons. And in the summer, Dima and I manage to get away to spend a vacation together. My parents have a small dacha in the Moscow region - it’s a long drive, the conditions there are quite modest, but every year we go there: we grill kebabs, Dima helps dad with construction and repair work. This is important for parents.
We thank the Metropol Hotel for their assistance in organizing the shooting. On Tatyana: Yulia Prokhorova Beloe Zoloto dress
Photo: Vladimir Shirokov. Makeup and hair: Nadezhda Vshola/The Agent. Producer: Svetlana Ryabinina
Teaching my son to break the rules
– What other places in Moscow, besides the hotel and the cathedral where you got married, are significant for your family?
Serebryany Bor. We arrived there to a small boarding house in anticipation of our first child, we thought we would spend a few months, Vanechka would be born, and return to Moscow. But we liked it so much that we stayed in a small room for three long years. By the way, there were several other families there, we became friends, our children grew up together. Dima left for work, and Vanechka and I remained in an oasis of nature, beauty and fresh air. And when the son grew up, he had to go to kindergarten to communicate with peers, the opportunity arose to buy an apartment and live in it. Waiting for our youngest son Dima suggested: “Maybe we can go again, rent a room there and live?” But this is already difficult when everything is settled in Moscow, when the eldest has to go to first grade... And yet we often come for a walk in our Serebryany Bor - such a poignant, nostalgic feeling appears every time. Then we were still children on the first stage of our family relationships.
Patriarch's ponds for me native place- After graduating from the institute, I worked at the Youth Theater and rented a room on the first floor at Patriarch's. Tanya and I really like to walk there.
Luzhniki too significant place. There, on September 12, 2006, at a Madonna concert, we met for the first time, and after that Dima, strictly speaking, never let me go.
Boys are completely different in character. Dima is still just a baby - on January 26 he turned three years old, and Vanya will be ten on August 7. He is responsible, executive, and worried. Even too responsible, this, by the way, is part of my character. I teach him to be easier about certain things. Super responsibility interferes with life. My son and I come up with games so that sometimes we can break the rules. I am a psychologist by training. Vanya tries to be the first and best in everything - my right hand in raising the youngest. She has been helping since Dima’s first birthday. Vanechka dreamed of a brother and waited for his birth. When we arrived from the maternity hospital, he said: “This is the happiest day of my life.” Although, to be honest, the younger one has a difficult character. He takes advantage of the fact that he is small and offends the elder - he takes away toys, gets jealous if we pay more attention to Vanechka. Dima is a natural leader. Active, artistic, with an ideal ear for music, loves to sing, dance, grasps everything on the fly and has a phenomenal memory. Dima has plenty of what I worry about with Vanya - he wants to do everything his own way, he has his own rules. He will never allow himself to be offended; he is the man who always stands up for himself. And Ivan, with all his natural strength, height, and powerful fist, is a kind guy and tries to resolve any conflicts with words, although if he hits him once, his opponent will fly away. Dima will always protect his territory and his older brother. Vanya finishes third grade with flying colors - he got straight A's from first grade. We study with our youngest at home, we take him to kindergarten twice a week, not for the sake of education, but so that he communicates with children and learns to behave in a group.
- Who, by the way, suggested naming your youngest son after his dad?
Tanya. I tried to dissuade her for a long time. But she was already in a position, I didn’t want to upset her and agreed. And Vanya’s name is the same as Tanya’s great-great-grandfather. He was a priest who was saved by parishioners during the years of persecution, and he lived in the basement as a hermit monk. I am sure that children should be named after worthy ancestors so that they continue their memory.
– How do you see your sons in 20 years?
My dream is for them to do what they like. To become their father’s assistants, and I don’t mean in the profession. I hope they will receive a fundamental classical education - legal, economic, financial... Yes, they have a natural acting charisma that will be useful in any activity. And Dima and I will help them achieve their goals. We plan to educate our sons in Russia; we cannot imagine a situation where our children will study away from us. Any kind of boarding school, no matter how fantastic the university, is scary. Children grow, and at each stage of growing up, our participation in their lives becomes even more important.
My sons must be honest, kind, responsible, loving and loved, no matter who they become. The only thing is that I wouldn’t want Dima to follow in my footsteps. But it’s too early to think about this. As a child, I didn’t want to be an actor; I dreamed, like many guys, of becoming a sailor. But my dad (actor Pyotr Dyuzhev - Note: “Antennas”) somehow edifyingly asked me to fulfill his will, so I became an artist. Maybe he saw talent in me, I don’t know. I really want to see my children’s children; babysitting them is my main dream. This will be when age will no longer allow you to strive for development in your profession, you will be able to be around these angels smelling of breast milk around the clock.
– Do you no longer dream of adding to your family?
It might be like this...
Dima is still very young. And then as God wills.
Dates
On Valentine's Day, February 14, one of the most eligible bachelors in the country, actor Dmitry DYUZHEV, married the charming blonde Tanya ZAYTSEVA. Last summer, the actor introduced his girlfriend to everyone as his bride. But few people believed in the seriousness of Dyuzhev’s feelings, despite the fact that Dmitry never missed an opportunity to publicly demonstrate the emotions that overwhelmed him. It's not surprising! After all, before Tanya, the actor had several passions, whom he also called “my baby” and gently kissed on camera. And the actor even publicly introduced one of them as his wife.
Natalya TSYGANOVA
About creation own family Dmitry began to think seriously after he lost his closest relatives one after another. First, in July 1998, at the age of 12, she died of blood cancer. younger sister actor - Nastenka. The girl was treated the best specialists Astrakhan (where Dmitry is from) and Moscow. But it was not possible to save her. The father, Pyotr Valentinovich Dyuzhev, blamed himself for the baby’s death. Out of grief, the man started drinking and abandoned the family business - shopping mall, named after his daughter. And on April 3, 2002, no longer able to fight the misfortune that befell him, he opened his veins. Less than a year later, Dimina’s mother, teacher Lyudmila Grigorievna, also died. The woman's heart could not withstand the terrible shocks.
Faith in God helped Dmitry overcome terrible depression after his misfortunes. And also the hope that he will meet his soul mate and create with her new family. The actor spent more than one year searching for this one.
"Just friendship"
Shortly before the wedding, answering a question from our journalist, Dima admitted with a chuckle:
Well yes, I love women. Somehow atypical with myself.
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Dmitry was always surrounded by beautiful ladies. There were plenty of fleeting affairs, but to start Serious relationships The actor not only needed a pretty face, he dreamed of meeting a soul mate.
It seemed to him that he found such a girl in the daughter of General Shamanov, Svetlana. They often traveled together to monasteries and repeatedly appeared hand in hand at social events. There was already talk in the movie community about the upcoming wedding, but Dima claimed that they were connected only by friendship. And soon the actor completely reduced his relationship with Shamanova to nothing. Many people cited the reason for the outbreak of feelings for actress Yulia Svezhakova. Sveta experienced the breakup painfully. The girl clearly expected that the notorious “kinship of souls” would end with the ringing of wedding bells. But it didn’t work out. However, things didn’t work out for Dmitry and Yulia. He quickly became disillusioned with the beauty and broke off the relationship. Julia did not grieve and, as they said, found solace in hugs ex-husband Yulia Menshova Igor Gordin. Perhaps Dyuzhev would return to “ dear soul»Tatyana Shamanova, but by that time the girl had already given her consent to marriage to Shchelkovo businessman Oleg Khramushin. Dyuzhev was even invited to the wedding, but he did not show up for the celebration. There were rumors that the news of Sveta's marriage upset Dmitry so much that he went on a drinking binge.
Red beast
The third time Dmitry was severely disappointed in love was on tour in Nizhny Novgorod. He came there with the entreprise “Go Crazy.” The title of the play completely coincided with the experiences that befell the star in this city.
At the end of the performance, a red-haired beauty miraculously broke into Dima’s dressing room. - I know what you need, Dima! - she shouted. Dyuzhev fell in love with the charming girl at first sight. He pulled her close to him, began to whisper something gently in her ear, and then generally demanded to leave them alone. But the organizers managed to find a moment to kick out the strange fan. As one Nizhny Novgorod publication wrote, Dima threw a tantrum. He demanded to find the girl, insisting that he wanted to marry her. The search was successful. True, not at all the way Dmitry would like. It turned out that red-haired beast Journalists from the local branch of the Moscow tabloid used Kosmos as bait. It was a cruel blow. Since then, Dyuzhev has had an extremely negative attitude towards representatives of the press and really dislikes Nizhny Novgorod. To persuade him to film the film “Zhmurki” in this city, director Alexei Balabanov had to make a lot of efforts.
There will be a wedding
Soon the actor met actress Natalya Shvets. Their relationship lasted almost two years. They often quarreled, but gave the impression of a happy couple.
Dima and Natasha lived together, and the actor even called Shvets his wife. But Natasha never had to become Dyuzhev’s wife.
I don’t want to stir up the past, what happened is gone,” Natalya shared with us. - This was a wonderful page in my life, but I managed to turn it over and move on with my life. Now I am having an equally wonderful period. Dima and I stayed in good relations, we don’t hold grudges against each other. In the film community, we are sure that the idea of separation belonged to Dmitry. As the actor explained to his friends, “love is gone, and there is no point in living together.” But most likely true love The actor had never experienced Shvets.
After all, not once in two years of his life did he offer to legitimize their relationship, while the words “be my wife” were spoken to Tanya Zaitseva a couple of months after they met. Dyuzhev met a fragile blonde, an employee of an oil company, at one of the closed parties. The period of romantic meetings was short-lived. Soon Dmitry moved Tanya to his apartment, which he bought a year ago in the city center, selling the one-room apartment on Sokol, given to him by his mother. Before the New Year, the actor was already openly talking about the wedding. The date of the celebration - February 14, Valentine's Day - Tanya and Dima chose together.
A couple of days before registration, we called Dima to congratulate him on his happy event. He shared that he plans to hold the celebration with only the people closest to him and Tanya. He answered our question about the wedding in the affirmative:
I'm a believer!
This year the couple celebrates 10 years since their wedding and wedding. Together with Antenna, the couple walked through memorable places that had become significant in the life of their family.
Remember your wedding preparations?
My confessor said: “If you are going to get married, then let your wedding sound throughout the whole village. You won’t get away with it later - he promised in front of everyone, everyone was witnesses. Say it loudly so that later you will be ashamed if something goes wrong in your marriage.” So we wanted to have a wedding within historical walls with a special celebration. We were thinking about renting some kind of estate, so that all the guests could be dressed up in costumes from a different era, so that classical music would play... In the end, we settled on the Metropol. The architectural style of the hotel is modern, it combines classics and innovations. And I'm a fan of the classics. Tanechka’s mother is a teacher, her father is an engineer-inventor - he worked at Mosenergo all his life, launching power plants. According to their way of life, the wedding should be more modest, the better. They said: “Dima, understand. We are a Soviet classic couple, far from the artistic world and have never been public.” But we persuaded them, saying that we wanted a big holiday.
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
It took a long time to choose the dress, together with Dima. They did not believe in the sign that the groom should not see the bride’s outfit before the wedding. By the way, it just so happens that Dima’s opinion in matters of choosing clothes is important to me. Despite the fact that he is a man, he has a subtle feeling and, as a creative person, has good taste. At that time, ivory-colored dresses were in fashion - slightly creamy-beige, but we wanted classics, dreamed of boiling white with a full skirt. And they found something like a meringue cake, also studded with Swarovski crystals. On the eve of the marriage registration, we arrived at the same hotel and stayed in the room so that in the morning we could begin the final preparations - putting ourselves in order, dressing up, and welcoming guests.
When they came to look at the rooms, a hotel employee said that Michael Jackson had stayed there. I immediately chose it. My Cosmos in “Brigade” said about the car: “Only me and Michael Jackson have this.” This is how this phrase came to life.
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
We went to the registry office on February 14, 2008 with a small group of our closest friends and relatives. And when we returned, we changed clothes and went to the large hall of the restaurant, where about 200 guests were already greeting us. They lined up and showered us with rose petals, rice...
Dmitryi Duzhev:
There were gypsies, champagne... Everything was real. They organized traditional wedding games - ransoming the bride, recognizing her by a kiss, guessing the ribbon by color. I passed all the tests with honor. Of course, we were incredibly tired, we wanted to sleep, but the first wedding night was a classic one - we sorted through gifts and counted money until the morning. And they were absolutely happy.
Did you party on the anniversary of your most important family event?
Dmitryi Duzhev:
We also celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary at the Metropol, in the same room. True, they have already invited not 200 guests, but much less. At the peak of its popularity was the deceptive perception of true friendship. Over the years, my friends become few and far between. Therefore, the party was not held in a large hall; there was no point in it. Yes, Tanya and I already have a different attitude towards the holidays; we don’t remember the last time we were at a disco.
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
A few months after the wedding, on July 20, we got married in the Cathedral of St. John the Evangelist. When Dima said that for him this was more important than a stamp in his passport, I heard him. My parents and grandparents have lived in love and harmony for many years, and I understood that the decision to get married can only be made once in a lifetime - it’s forever, you can’t change your mind. Therefore, she easily agreed to the wedding. We were married by Father Andrey, Dima’s confessor since his student days, and later he became our sons’ godfather.
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How it all began? Dima admitted to me that he had love at first sight. Do you have it too, Tanya?
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
Men, it seems to me, always fall in love right away. And women, as a rule, think. At least it took me a year and a half to get married. At first there was distrust. It seemed that being the wife of a public person was not really my story. I thought that it would be difficult to understand the line between Dima the actor and the person. But day after day the feeling grew within me. As I got to know him, I realized how big of a soul and kind heart he had.
Dmitryi Duzhev:
Tanechka was partly afraid of my Space (a character from the TV series “Brigada.” - Note: “Antennas”). I probably thought that I was the same.
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
Well, I also saw “The Island” (Pavel Lungin’s 2005 film, in which Dyuzhev played a clergyman. - Note “Antennas”). I just knew that people in the acting profession are a little more demonstrative and eccentric. But my Dima is different. He knows how to be a super professional in his field, but when he comes home, he becomes a super husband, friend, father, a real sincere person who does not play in real life.
Dima probably looked after him beautifully?
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
Yes, but there were beautiful courtships in my life before him. This is not what captivated me. He showed himself so sincerely in his actions! Despite what I saw: he is young, still a boy, but he really is that wall, a man with a capital M, with whom I will not be afraid to become not as beautiful and not as young as now. I felt in him the same confidence that I felt in my father, my older brother. I understood that he was strong beyond his years and that with him I could overcome anything. He will find every opportunity to provide for me, our future children and will always be my friend. Was I jealous? From the first meeting, Dima showed such love that I believed that he would never deceive me. Although his friends said: “You understand that he always has fans nearby.” But thanks to Dima, he always gave me the feeling that for him there is no one better, more beautiful than me and there will not be anyone. I admit, I challenged Dima to a serious conversation a couple of times. At the beginning of our relationship, he went to America for a whole month on tour, and I understood that I could not wait for my husband at the window forever, that for me love at a distance is extremely difficult. But Dima convinced that there was nothing wrong with it. From the very beginning he said: “There is nothing that love cannot conquer.” And I believed him.
Dmitryi Duzhev:
Yes, there was a moment when Tanechka said that she couldn’t come to terms with my constant travel. I remember I received an invitation to star in the comedy “High Security Vacation.” Before filming began, he told Tanya: “Please quit your job. You are there from 9 to 6 pm, and I come home after midnight. I just can't wake up at 9 am. It turns out that we will see you only on weekends, if I have them, of course.” And Tanya left work, although it was not easy for her to take this step. This was even before marriage, we did not have any intimacy - after all, shortly before meeting Tanya, I made a vow to the abbot that I would not have an intimate relationship until I promised the woman to live with her until old age. I remember we arrived for filming, and not far from the village in which we settled was the Pskov-Pechersky Monastery. We went there, and suddenly a monk literally ran up to us: “Hello, where are your boys?” Me: “You have confused us with someone else. We are not married yet, we have no children.” But he clearly answered: “You will have boys, and you come to me.” They didn't take it seriously back then. And soon Vanya was born, Dima recently appeared...
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They say that love transforms over the years into respect between spouses for each other?
Dmitryi Duzhev:
I always remember the original purpose of our marriage and spiritual union. We promised each other to grow old together, to reach the end of our lives together. Therefore, no matter what quarrels and disagreements there are, we always remember that we cannot escape each other. There is no need to find out anything, it is better to reconcile as soon as possible. This will make it easier for us to reach our grandchildren.
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
And I would say that respect grows, and love transforms into another love, where you stop yourself at the moment of a quarrel, realizing that you can hurt your husband. In a word, you begin to treat your loved one more carefully. If young couples at first prove something to each other - they have passion and defend their own boundaries, so that it is easier to interact in the future, then in our case, after 12 years, it is easier for me to support my husband and agree with him. And Dima became more flexible in many things. Over the years, you understand the price of a short-term and, in principle, causeless outbreak, from which your loved one will then suffer. This understanding has not yet fully arrived, but it is coming. At the same time, I began to better feel Dima’s creative experiences, realize that he has a difficult and not at all festive profession, and began to treat my husband more carefully when he comes home after work. He does what he loves, and it is important for me that Dima comes out with a smile to the viewer again and again.
This is women's wisdom.
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
And men's too. Dima is a believer, and he brings a lot of Orthodoxy to our home. It is important to take care of each other, and a woman needs to give in to some things, because she is a woman. Dima once told me: “Every day we must understand that we will really stay with each other until the end, even if each of us changes greatly due to certain circumstances or life events.” This is the transformation of love we have experienced over the years together. We both have also changed because we became mothers and fathers twice.
Dmitryi Duzhev:
I was constantly developing in my profession, graduated from the directing department, wanted to get a third - political science - education or graduate from a seminary. But in recent years I began to understand that happiness does not lie in self-education and self-improvement, but in the family. The value of human life depends on the number of people who depend on you. And if I do not participate in the development of the character and personality of children, then they will grow up without me. The worst thing, as spiritual fathers say, is to raise your child incorrectly. In heaven they will definitely ask: “Where are your children? What are they? And why do they, born by you, bring negativity into life?” After death, only the memory remains of a person.
Dmitryi Duzhev:
With Dimin’s busy schedule, we don’t have the opportunity to sit down for dinner. But when my husband has a day off, he treats us all with incredible trepidation. We get together with our family for the New Year and spend the holidays. I have two nephews, they are friends with our sons. And in the summer, Dima and I manage to get away to spend a vacation together. My parents have a small dacha in the Moscow region - it’s a long drive, the conditions there are quite modest, but every year we go there: we grill kebabs, Dima helps dad with construction and repair work. This is important for parents.
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What other places in Moscow, besides the hotel and the cathedral where you got married, are significant for your family?
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
Serebryany Bor. We arrived there to a small boarding house in anticipation of our first child, we thought we would spend a few months, Vanechka would be born, and return to Moscow. But we liked it so much that we stayed in a small room for three long years. By the way, there were several other families there, we became friends, our children grew up together. Dima left for work, and Vanechka and I remained in an oasis of nature, beauty and fresh air. And when the son grew up, he had to go to kindergarten to communicate with peers, the opportunity arose to buy an apartment and live in it. While waiting for our youngest son, Dima suggested: “Maybe we should go again, rent a room there and live?” But this is already difficult when everything is settled in Moscow, when the eldest has to go to first grade... And yet we often come for a walk in our Serebryany Bor - such a poignant, nostalgic feeling appears every time. Then we were still children on the first stage of our family relationships.
Dmitryi Duzhev:
Patriarch's Ponds is a native place for me - after graduating from college, I worked at the Youth Theater and rented a room on the first floor on Patriarch's Ponds. Tanya and I really like to walk there.
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
Luzhniki is also a significant place. There, on September 12, 2006, at a Madonna concert, we met for the first time, and after that Dima, in fact, never let me go anywhere.
Who are the sons like?
Tatyana Dyuzheva:
Boys are completely different in character. Dima is still just a baby - on January 26 he turned three years old, and Vanya will be ten on August 7. He is responsible, executive, and worried. Even too responsible, this, by the way, is part of my character. I teach him to be easier about certain things. Super responsibility interferes with life. My son and I come up with games so that sometimes we can break the rules. I am a psychologist by training. Vanya tries to be the first and best in everything - my right hand in raising my youngest. She has been helping since Dima’s first birthday. Vanechka dreamed of a brother and waited for his birth. When we arrived from the maternity hospital, he said: “This is the happiest day of my life.” Although, to be honest, the younger one has a difficult character. He takes advantage of the fact that he is small and offends the elder - he takes away toys, gets jealous if we pay more attention to Vanechka. Dima is a natural leader. Active, artistic, with an ideal ear for music, loves to sing, dance, grasps everything on the fly and has a phenomenal memory. Dima has plenty of what I worry about with Vanya - he wants to do everything his own way, he has his own rules. He will never allow himself to be offended; he is the man who always stands up for himself. And Ivan, with all his natural strength, height, and powerful fist, is a kind guy and tries to resolve any conflicts with words, although he should hit him once and his opponent would fly away. Dima will always protect his territory and his older brother. Vanya finishes third grade with flying colors - he got straight A's from first grade. We study with our youngest at home, we take him to kindergarten twice a week, not for the sake of education, but so that he communicates with children and learns to behave in a group.
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