The desire to attract the opposite sex is natural, and it is for this reason that many girls are constantly trying to find an answer to the question: "What do men like?" Ultimately, they try to improve their figure and appearance in general, as they believe that this will help keep the person they love. But how will men themselves answer this question? Some of the answers may surprise you a lot.

1. Kindness

Men always notice good deeds, especially when they are looking for a partner for a long-term relationship. No wonder they say that goodness returns. It turns out that it comes back in the form of increased attention from men.

2. Ability to find a way out of an awkward situation

Men keep repeating that they are attracted by naturalness in both behavior and appearance. But it turns out that your reaction to unforeseen situations is also important to them. When a girl admits she made a mistake, instead of making excuses or getting angry, she has every chance of seeing admiration in the eyes of men.

3. Nails

Many girls are sure that no one except the manicurist is interested in their nails. However, men seem to pay attention to whether your hands are well-groomed (although they may not notice the exact color of the polish or the shape of your nails), as it helps them determine how well you are taking care of yourself.

4. Emotional state

According to men, one of the most unpleasant types of women is those with a negative outlook. Men can notice everything that bothers you and from time to time worsens your mood: unpleasant work, quarrels with your parents, suffering from unfulfilled dreams. This makes them associate your image with longing, while they are actually looking for a source of positivity. This is why they are so easily charmed by happy women who know how to enjoy life.

If you also see negativity in everything, but try to pretend to keep a man near you, you are unlikely to be able to deceive him for a long time. Sooner or later, your man will notice that you are feeling overwhelmed, even if you try your best to look like the happiest person in the world. That is why you must learn to find simple joys in everyday life, and do it not for the sake of a man, but for yourself.

5. Financial condition

Women have long fought for equality of rights, and they got it. That is why in the modern world, not only women look at the financial situation of men, but also vice versa. This is a very delicate but important topic at the same time. Therefore, be sure that men are not asking about your finances out of curiosity, but in order to get to know you better and draw conclusions. If you make more than he does, it may take him some time to come to terms with this situation. If you make less money, he may want to determine if your interests are purely financial.

6. Self-assessment

Men like to compliment women who are confident in their own beauty and attractiveness, and not soothe those who are used to neglecting themselves. A man is unlikely to be attracted to a woman who constantly doubts her own beauty. Moreover, self-confidence usually compensates for any perceived or real deficiencies. If you understand this, then very soon you can become the very beautiful woman that men dream of.

7. Attitude towards other girls

If you look disapprovingly at every girl passing by, or, moreover, allow yourself unpleasant comments about her, be sure that the man nearby will notice this. Worst of all, this behavior will make you look like a notorious girl with an envious and harsh personality in his eyes.

8. Style

Some men are not well versed in the latest fashion trends, but this does not mean that they do not care how a girl looks. Your style can be the deciding factor as every man has his own idea of ​​what his dream girl should look like. Some, for example, will never approach a girl with bright pink hair, while others, on the contrary, dismiss these prejudices. This is why you should never adjust to someone else's taste - you cannot be equally liked by everyone.

9. Shoes

Yes, men are very attentive to the girls they are interested in and pay attention to everything from nails to shoes. No, they are not trying to determine the designer of your shoes or memorize the rules of color combinations between shoes and handbags, but they pay attention to how comfortable you feel in the shoes. When a girl wears shoes with huge and unstable heels, it can cause irritation and the desire to end the date as soon as possible.

10. Number of friends

It is important for a man that his companion has her own life and real friends, with whom she went through fire and water. The absence of a close friend and a lot of acquaintances who change from time to time makes you wary.

11. Clothes with an open back

Although this point has nothing to do with the qualities of a woman, it is still worth mentioning. Open-back tops and dresses are an easy way to look feminine and sexy without revealing too much.

12. Laughter

Girls who are not afraid to show their true emotions always fascinate men.

13. Sense of humor

Almost all men, when describing their ideal of a woman, do not forget to mention such a moment as a sense of humor. Research also shows that girls who understand jokes and can joke themselves are more attractive to men.

14. Cheerfulness

As you know, insomnia and lack of sleep are bad for your attractiveness, and this cannot be hidden even with the help of cosmetics. In one study, men looked at pictures of attractive women: some of them had slept 8-9 hours the night before, while others had not gone to bed at all. Tired women seemed to men less attractive, sad, and even aggressive.

15. Aspirations

Life in modern society is distinguished by a rapid rhythm and fullness of various events. Probably the reason why the desire to live a fulfilling life (to turn big, crazy dreams and plans into reality and strive to reach new heights, continuing to look for sources of inspiration) is a very important factor that makes girls attractive to men. But passivity and laziness only repel modern men. It's fair that women are also not happy with men who don't strive for anything.

Men quite simply choose the women he likes. A representative of the fair sex should be attractive, cheerful and well-groomed, and then he will look closely at her and look for something that he likes. Women approach the choice of a companion much more seriously, starting not only from external data, but also the character traits that she prefers.

In general, practically every woman there is a list of basic masculine qualities by which she is looking for a life partner. Sometimes it can be simple loyalty and sincerity, and sometimes intelligence, restraint and the ability to make decisions are needed. One way or another, there are some masculine qualities that absolutely all women are attracted to. If you want to attract the attention of a particular person, then you need to try to meet the following requirements.

What qualities attract women to men?

1. Care and attention from men... A woman will always give preference to someone who pays a lot of attention to her and is ready for anything for her. This character trait is not inherent in all representatives of the stronger sex. It so happens that a man was brought up in a family where it was not customary to show his emotions and spend the weight of his free time on a loved one. That is why a man brought up in such conditions will be sure that his beloved woman is another area of ​​his life that is not worth spending a lot of time on. A woman, in turn, wants to receive a lot of attention, love and care, so she will give preference to a man who can provide it to her.

2. Male sense of humor... This quality is also important for all women. Being with the company, she will always give preference to someone who knows how to joke subtly and draws attention with her positive attitude. A sense of humor is always relevant, even if your woman is phlegmatic. Cheerful people who know how to joke make you want to communicate, get to know them better and soak up its positive. With a cheerful person, it is much easier to overcome life's difficulties and deal with a bad mood, so women will be happy to start a relationship with a positive-minded young man.

3. Purposefulness in men... Many men believe that women only care about their salary and the level of the career ladder. In fact, most women pay attention to what a particular man wants and how he achieves his goals. A person who knows exactly what he wants and works every day in order to fulfill his dream and achieve the goals set will always attract the attention of the fair sex and arouse their respect. It is worth paying attention to the fact that women are always looking for free men who are absolutely confident in their strengths and capabilities. Sometimes such self-confidence is unjustified, but how such a man feels is important for absolutely all women.

4. Decent appearance of men... Women, of course, are not as fixated on appearance as men, but they also pay attention to how a particular representative of the stronger sex looks. Men want to see next to them an incredible long-legged beauty with a gorgeous bust, which will cause admiration in him, and envy among friends. It is only important for a woman that a loved one is neat, wear clean clothes that fit well on him and do not let his figure run. In fact, there is nothing difficult about this, but many men do not even adhere to this, and then they wonder why women do not pay attention to him.

5. Passion of men... Almost all women are very emotional, so passion in a relationship is really important to them. must constantly compliment her, be faithful and loyal, and in bed - sexy and hot. These simple rules can be the key to a happy family life, because the cold between two people always moves away. A passionate man excites women's minds and hearts and knows how to conquer with just one glance. Romantic dates, beautiful words and bright nights of love - all this makes women submissive and in love.

6. The mind of men... No matter how smart and well-read a woman is, she always wants to see next to her a worthy life partner who can support any conversation or even teach her something. Of course, if a woman is not very smart, then she will not pay much attention to the IQ level of a particular representative of the stronger sex, but most ladies are looking for intellectuality in a man. But do not go too far, because some harsh statements can be an insult to a woman, because she does not want to feel narrow-minded against the background of a loved one. If you constantly boast to a lady of her deep knowledge of science, then sooner or later she will find someone who will be less well-read, but will recognize her mind as well.

7. Self-confidence in men... Just like a man, a woman will never give preference to a representative of the opposite sex, who suffers from complexes and is not sure of either his words or actions. In order to arouse a woman's real admiration and attract her attention, it is important to be as self-confident as possible and make a pleasant impression on others. No matter how strong and self-confident a woman is, she always wants to see an equally worthy companion next to her. A man may not at all have some positive qualities that women like so much, but his confidence that he is the best will always set him apart from other representatives of the stronger sex.

8. Sociability of men... A man who wants to attract the attention of women should behave in any company at ease, be able to maintain a conversation and be an interesting interlocutor. If he wants to spend all the time at a party alone at a table with a glass of cognac, then it is unlikely that he will attract the attention of the fair sex.

Always cheerful self-confident guy, which is in the center of attention and entertains others, will arouse the interest of women. To do this, you do not need to be able to juggle oranges, arrange an evening of humor or dance skillfully, you just need to actively communicate and evoke positive emotions in your interlocutors.

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Men can also afford to "dig" in applicants for a place in the heart, especially when it comes to choosing a life partner with whom he plans to live and raise children. And here it turns out that not all feminine traits are liked by men.

1. Inability to manage the household. Well, why should a man who plans to start a family, a clumsy wife, who is not able to cook dinner, is not able to sew a button? And if children appear, they also need care and supervision, not to mention upbringing. And a woman does not know how. No, a man will definitely not choose this option.

2. Laziness... Does the girl spend most of her time at the computer, chatting with her friends on the phone, lying on the couch, or does she stay on the TV? Men do not need such "happiness" either. Especially if a man is purposeful, builds a career, earns money, and at home a woman is waiting for him, who has done absolutely nothing around the house, because she was too lazy to break away from the “contact”. I think that few men will agree to take on women's responsibilities in the household.

3. Activity and high intelligence. Paradox, but also too active, purposeful women scare men too. A man does not want to be "under the thumb", be subjected to constant criticism and be controlled. And, moreover, least of all most men want to depend on women. And if a girl also has a clearly prevailing intellect and breadth of outlook, men simply cease to perceive her as a potential candidate, so as not to look stupid and pitiful against her background.

4. Greed. A woman only asks and asks for money, entertainment and fulfillment of any whims? According to the logic of a man, such a woman in him is only interested in wallet and physical strength. Moreover, she herself is not able or does not want to bring something to the family budget, and any requests for services cause her hysteria. It is understandable why men are repulsed by women who evaluate partners solely by their financial situation.

5. Problem. If a girl constantly complains about her problems, illnesses, difficult circumstances, constantly finds herself in tense situations and is depressed, she is unlikely to be able to quickly find a mate. Having talked with such a girl, a man understands that even with the development of relations, this flow of negativity will not stop. But you really want to come home, where your beloved wife or girl is waiting for you, who with her smile will warm the evening and cheer up. Who wants to live with the "eternal crybaby"?

6. Bitchiness. The attitude of men to this trait of a female character is a natural paradox. At the initial stages of a relationship, men even like it and do not cause any negative emotions. But over time, bitchy women begin to "strain" men. Men themselves are not able to answer the question of why they first surrender to the power of the bitch, and then break off the relationship. Although some radically opposite types of men ("rags" and "macho") can live with a bitch all their lives.

7. Beauty. Another paradox of male logic. If a girl is very beautiful, almost perfect, a man will be afraid to approach her, if only because he would never believe that such a girl is lonely. And if the acquaintance nevertheless took place, with all his desire, the man, most likely, will not insist on the development of relations, because he will be afraid to be a "gray mouse" against the background of his companion. Well, there is no escape from the subconscious fear of treason, even if the girl does not give any reason for such thoughts. So it turns out that clever beauties spend their days alone, while their more bitchy rivals "twist" men with might and main.

8. And one more feature of male logic: men are afraid of women who are similar to their mothers (either in appearance or in character). At the same time, there is an opinion that a man is looking for a life partner, at least somewhat similar to his mother. And the opinion is correct. But if the similarity turns out to be simply striking, the man will not continue the relationship: firstly, the image of the mother is sacred and is not applicable to the life partner, and secondly, there is a subconscious fear that the woman, just like the mother, will begin educate and control a man.

9. "Sharp tongue". Men do not want to be the object of constant stinging ridicule, so
more in company with mutual friends. Especially if a man himself cannot boast of a sense of humor. And you cannot be rude or sarcastic in response: the woman will be offended. Therefore, men find themselves in a desperate situation: they need to give an adequate answer to the ridicule, but at the same time the question cannot be solved “purely like a man”. So such a girl is more likely to become the soul of a common company, but not a companion in life (at least until she comes across the same "wit").

The list goes on and on. Every man has his own preferences and fears. Someone likes giggles, and someone hates them, someone is crazy about a business woman, and someone would like to connect their lives with a nice housewife. The choice is on the side of men: to accept and come to terms with some feminine qualities, or to look for that ideal girl that he sees in his fantasies.

What attracts men to women

But not everything is so hopeless for the girls who, for some reason, were included in the above list. "Negative", from the point of view of men, qualities can be balanced by those traits that men, on the contrary, are attracted to. And then, perhaps, what initially repulsed a man will turn into the notorious female "zest".

1. Sex appeal. A woman's sex appeal plays a big role for a man. The more feminine and sensual the companion is, the better. And many even like it when strangers turn around after his half. The main thing is that the man does not go to the other extreme: he does not begin to be jealous of the girl for everyone and everyone.

2. Appearance. There are generally accepted standards of beauty in society. But, as practice shows, each man's priorities of female beauty are purely individual. Therefore, even girls who do not have a model appearance have every chance of finding a mate. The main thing is that the figure is feminine, this "fad" is in the blood of men.

3. Mimicry, glance, movement. Bright makeup and perfect facial features, according to men, are not the main thing in a woman. Pleasant facial expressions and body movements are more important. Smooth, graceful movements, sweet smile, soft eyes can conquer any man.

4. Clothes. Yes, men pay attention to clothes. Moreover, it is not at all necessary that

some dress was "mini" and fitted all women's charms. Quite the opposite, sucha girl will not be taken seriously by a man. But elegant, tastefully selected clothes that can emphasize a woman's personality, designate all the best and hide everything unwanted, men really like.

5. Lack of bad habits. Considering that there are fewer and fewer girls without bad habits, such persons are very popular among men. Of course, this is not the most important factor in choosing a life partner, after all, everyone has their own shortcomings. But, nevertheless, if a girl smokes cigarettes like a locomotive, drinks like a real alcoholic, and swears no worse than Uncle Vasya's janitor, she has little chance of being noticed.

6. Cheerfulness. A bright, positive, smiling girl involuntarily attracts the glances of all the men around her. There is little positive in modern life, everyone has their own burden of problems on their shoulders. But if, despite this, the girl remains cheerful and cheerful, she has few chances of being alone.

7. Thoughtfulness. Even the harshest and most independent men sometimes want to be taken care of, brought a mug of tea when he watches a movie, or courted when a man is sick. At the same time, caring should not develop into custody, such a man does not like. Well, except for gigolos, who are used to living supported by women.

8. Economy. Although women's love of shopping has become the talk of the town, women know how to save money - at least for a new dress. The ability of women to "stretch" the remnants of their wages in such a way as to pamper themselves and not to experience difficulties in finances, is amazing for men. And if this woman's ability to translate into a "peaceful" channel, to focus on the family budget, the man will be very pleased.

9. Well-groomed. Men have no idea how much time and effort it takes girls to be beautiful and fresh every day. Well, let them not imagine, for them it does not matter. The main thing is that it is always pleasant to look at the girl and touch her. A man will even put up with a huge number of jars and tubes in the bathroom (if only half of the family budget is not spent on this).

Again, this is not a complete list. In general, a woman as such always remains a mystery for men that cannot be fully solved. By the way, this is what attracts many in women: the ability to understand female thinking, female habits.

So the choice of a life partner for men turns into a serious task: what to accept and what you can accept, what he will never accept, what attracts him more. If the choice is made consciously, happy couples appear who will spend their entire lives together.

But men should not forget about themselves: you may find the ideal girl, in your opinion. But just whether she wants to be next to you if you do not have masculine qualities attractive to girls?

In choosing a partner, a man traditionally plays an active role. But in fact, a man usually chooses from those women who have already paid attention to him and created conditions conducive to acquaintance and rapprochement. Therefore, the first task of a man is to draw attention to himself, and in a positive way. What attracts a woman to a man?

Intelligence

Women appreciate intelligence in men. In the presence of an extraordinary mind and intelligence, physical data recede into the background.

It is no coincidence that female students fall in love in the most serious way with their teachers (and schoolgirls with teachers of physics, mathematics and other complex subjects), although the huge age difference and, accordingly, not the best physical data, it would seem, constitute an insurmountable obstacle to this.

Sexologists argue that male intelligence causes a woman's sexual attraction. Not to mention the fact that a woman with an intelligent man is interested. Apparently, therefore, excellent students, as a rule, are not deprived of the attention of fellow students and many excellent students are "bewitched" even in their student years.

And usually clumsy people do not know how to dance. The first beauty and sex symbol of America in the 60s, among whose many fans was President Kennedy, probably knew a lot about men.

Speech

The external manifestation of intelligence is speech. Intellectual disability usually affects the poor vocabulary, mispronunciation, the use of hackneyed expressions and the expression of common truths. The wretchedness of thought gives rise to primitive speech.

Foolish thoughts come to everyone's mind, but only a fool voices them.

Everyone knows that “a woman loves with her ears,” and it is speech that can attract or, on the contrary, push her away.

Nothing develops speech like studying, reading, communicating with smart people and working on yourself. A person who reads a lot has not only competent, rich speech, but also interesting in conversation.

A woman, especially when meeting, listens very attentively to a man, trying to understand what he is, whether it is worth spending time on him. And as you know, the first impression is decisive and influencing all subsequent ones.

Literacy

Women are on average more literate than men, as they usually study more diligently. A more literate person feels a psychological advantage, so it is better not to show illiteracy.

It manifests itself not only in writing, but also in oral speech, first of all - with the declension of numbers.

The ability to get things done

Purposefulness, perseverance of a man, the ability to achieve his own, to win are very much appreciated by women.

When a man persistently pursues a woman, then this, on the one hand, is pleasant to her, because it emphasizes her value. On the other hand, it demonstrates a truly masculine character.

Often women, refusing, admit: “He did not really strive. And I like the more persistent. " (He brought her to sin (in her thoughts), and refused to go further.)

Prosperity

Women don't like losers. And this is quite natural. A woman is responsible for the continuation of the family, but after all, a child must not only be conceived, funds are needed to provide for it.

A loser is less likely to do it than someone who succeeds. Therefore, women are drawn to the successful - both in business and in finance. We'll talk about prosperity later. In the meantime, here are the answers of men in one of the polls.

Human qualities

Nobility, generosity, the ability to understand the state of a loved one - this is what women value very much.

The woman says: “It is disgusting to look at a man if he huddles with money. You come on a public line for an anniversary or a funeral, but he has no money or starts bargaining ... Whether it’s a matter - got as much as you need! A real man".

Reliability is highly valued. “Behind him, like behind a stone wall” is the highest characteristic of a woman and a man.

Having managed to show any of the listed qualities, a man significantly increases his chances of success with a woman.

Prosperity as it is today

The image of an energetic individualist who alone "stands a platoon, or even a company" has now come to the fore. In the line of supermen we have merchants, at their own peril and risk, rolling big money.

The image of a modern man has changed primarily in the understanding of a modern woman. Ladies nowadays put more emphasis on individual achievement. If earlier prosperity was associated with unsinkable state structures such as the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and Vneshtorg, now it seems like it is indecent for a real man not to have his own business.

Another sign of the times: the monetary element began to play an important role in love affairs. Women should not be immediately accused of selfishness: the amount of money spent on courtship indicates how much the gentleman is able to provide for a potential family.

The romantic hero is a lone individualist, and wealth fits into the structure of his image quite organically. At the same time, it is not so important where the money came from (maybe it is Robin Hood), and not even how much of it, if only it was spent for its intended purpose ("a million scarlet roses"). In short, our time provides opportunities for a man to become more masculine, and a woman more feminine.

What turns a woman away

The chances of winning at least one woman's heart are zero if:

- your cheeks are covered with a biting three-day stubble (do not try to pass it off as a light unshaven fashionable now - in order to maintain the vegetation of the right size on your cheeks, a fair amount of talent is also required);

- you have greasy hair and dandruff on your shoulders;

- you are a rough guy with rough lips. Your passionate kiss can only please a rhinoceros with its wind and sun tanned skin;

- you have thoroughly smoked teeth; in this case, even the vaunted "Tick-tock with menthol" will not help you;

- your feet sweat too quickly and you are addicted to nylon socks. Thought to drown out this fragrance with cologne, drive away at the first approximation;

- your favorite drink in the morning is the one that relieves the hangover;

- only a dim light is on in your bathroom, and even a fragment of a mirror does not revive the wall;
you are amused by vain hopes that your ordinary dreams will be of interest to her (unless, of course, your chosen one is a psychiatrist);

- you have rough hands and angular bitten nails (tights are expensive these days and they cannot withstand such touches).
Male beauty

Male beauty is different from female beauty. Men with good looks are often called "cute", "handsome", emphasizing this disapproving attitude. Others like it though. Let's list those components of a man's appearance that affect the impression of him, regardless of the degree of facial beauty.

Posture

The figure is the first thing that is perceived when meeting. The bulk of men are stooped and hunched over, while a stooped and hunched man is always associated in our minds with a murdered life, an insecure and sick old man. Conversely, a "dignified" person is associated with a healthy, full of vitality and self-confident person.

Sight

It affects people sometimes even stronger than posture. Eyes are the mirror of the soul, and try to let the soul of a man look at people from this mirror. The gaze should be direct, open and directed to the interlocutor's eyes, bridge of the nose or just above it. A narrowed gaze emphasizes your inquisitiveness, attention. A direct look already speaks of will and perseverance. A sidelong glance creates the impression of undercurrent anger and envy, and should be especially avoided. A running glance betrays a worried, fearful, insecure, and often a deceitful person. This look reduces male attractiveness to zero.

Eyes wide open speaks of surprise, naivety, or obsequiousness. In combination with an open mouth, such a look speaks of the underdevelopment of the human psyche or of his desire to seem more stupid than he really is. Remember Bismarck's dictum that stupidity is a gift from God, but you should not abuse it.

Gait

An even and firm gait speaks of a balanced character of a person, his self-confidence. If, moreover, his step is springy, then he is trained and physically developed. A brisk gait suggests that he is focused, fast, and may have a direct personality. The mincing step is the step of a fussy or insecure person, perhaps prone to toadying. An uneven, jerky step belongs to an insecure person, often doubting, with some kind of inferiority complex.

Your strength is in your hands

Psychologists say that following the figure and face of a woman, they pay attention to the hands of a man. You can say a lot about a person by hand - what is his occupation, is he used to taking care of himself.

Having won in strength, men's hands lost in appearance. Calluses, excess vegetation with ash trapped in it ... such a hand is difficult to take. Even if it is offered together with a very noble heart.

The ideal man's hand should be firm, but not at all stiff, with sufficiently long, but not knobby and bony fingers. A warm and strong hand disposes a woman, giving her a feeling of kindness and solidity.

What's the bottom line? All this work on yourself may seem time consuming. But it will lead to the fact that you will have a wide choice: the ladies will get to know you without much difficulty on your part.

From the book of V.P. Sheinov "Man + Woman: to know and conquer"

Male acquisition. A guide for the conquest and retention of men Rybitskaya Natalya Borisovna

What attracts women to men?

Let's take a look at some good old-fashioned statistics that state that:

“Women in men are attracted primarily by intelligence».

However, women who have been married to geniuses prefer not smart men for remarriage, but at least pleasant companions with a sense of humor. Why? Excessive genius suppresses her own superiority in a woman (I'm not talking about her own importance).

Commentary on: After doing my own personal investigation, I am confident that statistic claims are bullshit! Men attract us with masculinity and audacity (from the word “dare”). These qualities, laid down by nature in individual males, act on women like red on a bull (they attract attention and intrigue). And intelligence is a profitable business, it would be a promising object. Any objections?

Isn't that too much for one man? Against the background of such a "superman" any woman will seem second-rate. Personally, reading the quote, I see not a man at all: it completely depicts a portrait of a modern woman.

Do you agree with me?

"Only 17% of women value sexuality in men." Statistics, even though you are feminine, but then "bent" ... I do not even want to comment on the quote.

“Attractive appearance, kindness, love for children, thriftiness, easy character complete the list of qualities that attract women to men. But it would seem that this is important. "

Eh, statistics, what you think is important has a completely different meaning for a woman.

Perhaps the secret of such selectivity lies in the fact that we want to find our other half, which will either complement our own flaws or emphasize our merits?

If we are kind, love children, know how to create comfort, but are completely devoid of physical strength and extravagance, then this is what we lack. Who can fill the gap? Man!

If we are beautiful “to the point of disgrace,” who can become the frame for the “priceless diamond”? A man devoid of good looks.

And love for children and thriftiness are so rare in men that if we were looking for a life partner according to these criteria, the search would drag on for decades.

By the way, the insulted pride leaped in me, and I decided to comment on the previous quote about male sexuality. Forgive me for the importunity ...

17% of “worried” opponents is not an indicator, just the remaining 83% turned out to be shy and modest in nature. In fact, sex excites them oh-ho-ho how!

Now my conscience is clear, and I can move on to the next point.

What do women expect from men?

And again boring statistics, in which I became a little disappointed ...

"First of all, a woman needs a man in order to feel reliability and stability."

I am translating into "human language": so that he would throw flowers, property, all his love and himself at her feet. Otherwise, a woman feels reliability and stability just in the absence of a man. She can be herself, do what she wants and not report to anyone.

"50% of women are absolutely happy in marriage"... Naturally, because half of them are in a state of "honeymoon", and the other half ... May they forgive me for being straightforward, but only fools are absolutely happy. The woman says that she is absolutely happy on very few occasions: for example, on her own wedding day or when she hugs her newborn child to her chest. The rest of the time, when she feels good, she's just happy

« 27% of women are unmarried "... Are they waiting for a handsome prince or does no one get married? Unfortunately, statistics are silent about this.

"23% are divorced." Oh - la - la! Better say that they are disappointed in men, or even doubt that they are able to give them this deep feeling.

"For a woman at all times and at any age, true love is the main value and goal." What is love? "Love is a powerful force that moves the world!" - I want to shout to the delight of statistics. But I remember my two previous marriages "for great love", and involuntarily I quote Uncle Krylov. His fables "The Quartet" and "The Swan, Cancer and the Pike" are a clear example to all women who dream of building a family only on love. Hence the problems: a man “plays a dashing dance balalaika”, and a woman “strumming a languid romance on the guitar”. One pulls the "cart" into the "abyss of passions", the other - to the sinful earth. As a result - "and things are still there".

For some, love is an eternal and endless flight, for others it is a light flutter from flower to flower. For the third - peace and stability. For me - equality and mutual respect.

May it be as you wish. Amen!

"True love does not occur so often in life, because young and warm hearts do not know how to wait, they are in a hurry, they mistake a feeling of sympathy and sexual desire for love."

And mature women are afraid of loneliness, and also do not want to wait - I already add this from myself, for reference.

Love, of course, is a good thing, but at the same time, mature women highly value a man's ability to provide them. Although, recently, many girls are striving not at all for high feelings, but for material benefits.

Well, since we are talking about finances, let's listen to "romances" on this topic ...

"With a sweetheart paradise and in a hut" - oh, how deeply our great-grandmothers were mistaken, driving this truth into the heads of their daughters! Love is love, but you want to eat every day, and not only eat ...

I wonder what statistics would say about women who earn more than their husbands? Why go far: personally, when my husband brought "specific money", I was fully confident that love did not pass me by. As soon as I "surpassed" my husband, scandals began in the family. Note that the initiator was the husband, not me, because his pride was hurt. He had one thing to do: either "jump" my bar, or accept the inevitability. He preferred the latter and turned out to be a weakling. I, a weak woman and not a feminist, wanted to see a man leader next to me. In short, our great love "tripped over a financial stone" and shattered.

Both on! Found - the same quote in the topic:

"In families where the financial basis is the income of the husbands, women are quite happy."

Oh, this is a vague word "quite" that does not give a clear answer: are women so happy or are they just pretending to be happy?

Perhaps they are satisfied with the "bar" of a man and do not demand more? In this case, "with a sweetheart paradise and in a hut" - this is about them.

So to summarize ... A woman needs a man who meets her "bar": spiritual, physical, sexual and financial.

« A woman needs a man to command her ".

A strong, self-confident man happily obeys his fair half, as soon as she lifts her finger. He is in a hurry to fulfill her every whim, just to please his beloved!

Honestly, it looks like a science fiction script, but isn't that what women dream about? They dream of dreaming, but more often they themselves run and take care of their companions, as if they were not "support and reliable shoulder", but a helpless child. Even the goldfish, having fulfilled only three wishes of the meticulous old man, sent him away. After all, there is a limit to the angelic female patience! There is no limit only to women's dreams ... and our stupidity. Rather, gullibility, which, in other matters, is one and the same.

How to build a relationship with your husband so that he does not shy away from the shrill notes of your commanding voice? How not to turn into a dog that can walk on its hind legs? The answer is simple: respect the man in your man, and then, with a clear conscience, gently coo: "dear, I will command the parade!"

« A woman needs a man as a friend and advisor". Hmmm - yes, this is already something from the category of "nowhere else", when "Viagra" will not help ...

If for a woman these qualities were more important than sex, then Nadezhda Konstantinovna Krupskaya would call herself the happiest of mortals.

However, my neighbor, who is fed up with this sex, dreams of intimate conversations with her husband. So I thought: in fact, it’s not bad to have in one person a man as an interlocutor and a man as a lover. Especially if you have common interests and his advice is not devoid of common sense. Unfortunately, women often prefer a friend rather than a man as a “spiritual partner”. And this, you see, does not at all contribute to rapprochement.

By the way, most beautiful women get bored with constant attention to their appearance, for them their most cherished dream is to meet a person who can appreciate their intelligence and business qualities. I dare, however, assume that if a man ignores a beauty physically for a week, he will be credited either as impotent, or ... Well, you get the idea ...

And then the offended woman will challenge the man, and at any cost will want to win.

Hence the conclusion: we need both, and preferably in one bottle.

Does it follow that:

« We need a man as a goal for winning victories? " Undoubtedly! For many women, the hunt for men becomes the meaning of life: as long as she has prey, she lives. And this is wonderful, because as long as men come across in women's networks, as long as a woman (married or free) feels like a wonderful "Diana - a hunter", she remains a WOMAN.

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