Divorces, no a rare event V Russian families. Although, in many cases this can be avoided by resorting to the help of specialists (psychotherapists and psychologists). But if this is already happening, then it is advisable to read and think, feel and imagine the contents of the letter that was written for one of the families. Try to immerse yourself in its content...
Dear dad!
Your daughter’s psychologist-consultant is contacting you.
They say childhood is carefree, cloudless. Only adults could come up with this myth. Children know something else - they often find themselves defenseless against the hardships of life and injustice, including in their family. I'm afraid that's why we treasure this tale of cloudless childhood. Well, I don’t want to agree that we are not able to at least make our children happy.
We don't wish them harm. And at the same time, we create it, voluntarily or unwittingly exposing children to childish tests.
When a family breaks up, children suffer. But the degree of this suffering can be reduced, or it can be increased. It all depends on how they behave ex-husband and the wife remaining parents, whether parental cooperation of recent spouses will or will not be relatively normal. However, in any case, no matter how hard they try to annoy each other, every divorced couple must keep in mind that their marriage ends, but the marriage continues - at least until the children stand firmly on their feet.
Five- to seven-year-old children perceive divorce in the most dramatic way. At this time, identification with parents by gender occurs. By the age of five, a girl identifies herself with her mother, a boy with his father. As a result, an understanding and acceptance of one’s female or male role in the future is formed. If at this time the parents separate, then the reaction can be extremely acute, up to fear of marriage in a girl and homosexual tendencies in the future in a boy.
Quite a lot of data has been collected on how life without a father affects children. These children, for example, are 5 times more likely to live in poverty, 3 times more likely to fail in school, 2 or 3 times more likely to experience emotional and behavioral problems, and 3 times more likely to commit suicide ( Don Eberle, "The Family as the Foundation of a Democratic Society").
Fatherlessness especially affects girls. As any sophisticated and caring father knows, there is no more vulnerable creature in the world than a girl in early adolescence. Girls who grew up without a father often become victims of young men who take advantage of their vulnerability. They yearn for a father's love, but they confuse it with what these young men actually offer them. Girls from families without a father are 164% more likely to give birth to children out of wedlock, which often happens already in adolescence.
Girls very often experience a feeling of guilt for what is happening and begin to think that it was because of them that the family fell apart. The feeling that “I am bad” can lead to depression or, conversely, cause aggression, leaving a feeling of inferiority for life. There is a high probability of the appearance of emotional disorders, mainly of the hysterical circle.
Failure of fathers to fulfill their important function can lead to unpredictable consequences. For example, a researcher drug addiction A. M. Larionov in his book “Drug Addiction: Myths. Meaning. Causes. Therapy” writes that children raised only by their mother are much more likely to become dependent on drugs than children raised by only one father.
For the first time, children encounter male authority—and, perhaps, authority and power in general—in the person of their father. How the child’s relationship with his father develops will largely determine how the child will continue to follow his own path. life path through the more difficult territory of relationships - authority and conflict at school, on the playground, on the street. In many ways, caring fathers serve as a bridge between the sheltered life of home and a more demanding environment. outside world. Fathers raise their children with the expectation that their children will inevitably face the need to follow certain rules and norms outside the family home. Good fathers encourage their children to develop positive habits of self-control and respect for others.
Another important point– the ability to control your impulses. This is one of the most important functions that the father performs in the socialization of children, that is, their harmonious inclusion in the life of society or a team. Renowned child psychologist Wade Horne argues that proper socialization requires children to develop the ability to delay gratification and control impulsive desires. According to him, properly raised children should learn not to “pounce” on others in order to get what they want, be able to listen and obey representatives of legitimate authority, such as parents and teachers. And studies analyzing how mothers raise children and how fathers raise children show that fathers play a significant role in children’s development of the ability to control their impulses and impulses and thereby be able to cooperate and build relationships correctly with others.
A child values his father not for his salary or for the gifts he may receive from him. More than anything else, children need their father's love, time and attention. After all, for them this is much more important than any material wealth.
Meeting children's needs requires effort—a willingness to make sacrifices. After all, giving children what they need most - love, time and attention - is not easy.
The best thing is good relationships. They are possible even after a divorce. When people calm down and passions subside, they can come to an agreement and behave in such a way - at least in front of the children - so that it will be easier for them to endure the separation of their parents.
I think that no one can give a recipe that is suitable for everyone. But it is very important that people know what is happening to them and their children, and what their actions and actions can lead to. If these are reasonable, not self-centered people, they will be able to find an acceptable solution - one that will cause the least damage.
Psychology and pedagogy unanimously agree that although a child will not die without a father, that a single mother is no longer a single mother, but a mother with a child, but that it would be much better if the father also took care of the child. At the same time, the mother becomes softer, more feminine, and primarily performs her maternal, protective and affectionate role. Father – more of a paternal nature, that is, demanding and prohibitive. The distribution of roles in the family is thus natural. A girl, having a feminine mother and a courageous father in front of her, rather sculpts her true female image.
In short, it is absolutely necessary - for the sake of the children - to ensure that even after divorce the marriage remains intact. To do this, it is necessary to ensure the implementation of normal paternal educational functions.
To give organizational form relationship between father and mother after divorce, it would be desirable to introduce two terms into practice - the “first” parent (the one with whom the child remains) and the “second” parent (the one who is equally responsible for the child). Establish a certain number of hours, days and weeks of communication between the “second” parent and the child without the presence of the “first”. Necessarily with overnight stays in the house of the “second” parent. It is necessary for the “second” parent to go on vacation with the child. It is fundamentally important that the child of the “second” parent also feels that he is not visiting, but at home. Let him have a bed or a sofa, his own corner with a table, etc. Nothing bad happens when a child is “split” between the houses of his parents and grandparents - and nothing bad will happen here. By the way, I would like to emphasize that the “second” should not only have the right to normal relations with children, but also equal responsibilities with the “first” parent - to take care of health, upbringing, education.
If one of the parents does not fulfill his duties, he must be punished in court. And not only in case of non-payment of alimony, but also in case of refusal of personal participation in the fate of the child.
If each spouse knows that he will still not be allowed to usurp the right to a child or neglect parental responsibilities, then they will be forced to look for peaceful ways to resolve parental relationships. The path to cooperation will open.
One must think that in the end it will be possible to save the child for both the mother and the father even after a divorce. And vice versa - the child will have both parents, even if they are divorced.
There are axioms with which we do not argue. There are taboos that humanity does not dare to cross. But isn’t it an axiom: giving birth to a child means taking responsibility for his health, education, and adaptation to our world?
Education is, first of all, CONSTANT spiritual communication between an adult and a child. K. D. Ushinsky.
"Caring for children, raising them - equal right and the responsibility of parents."
Constitution of the Russian Federation, Art. 38, paragraph 2.
What should a father do to protect his rights and the rights of his child?
General scheme:
1. Anticipating a high-conflict divorce, find out the names, addresses and telephone numbers of your spouse’s closest relatives and friends, since your children will most likely be hidden with them.
Make copies of the children's records and have them certified by a notary.
2. When divorcing, ask the court (in writing) to include in the court decision an exact schedule of access to the child for at least following conditions:
– communication without witnesses;
– 4 days of communication per month during the preschool period and 2 days per month during the study period, including overnight trips. Specify the days and times exactly;
– living with father for half (specify which) of each vacation.
If you do not insist on including these requirements in the court's decision on divorce and determining the child's residence, you risk losing access to the child for at least a year, since you will have to initiate a new lawsuit to establish a schedule.
Having a court decision with a precise indication of the schedule of access to the child allows the violator to be fined up to 200 for failure to comply with the court decision. minimum wages, and since these offenses are of a recurring nature, you can fine them repeatedly, and then file a lawsuit to transfer the child to you under Art. 66-3 of the Family Code. Usually this prospect cools off violators.
If you do not hire a lawyer, then thoroughly study not only the Family Code, but also the Civil Procedure Code.
3. If the mother or other persons living with your child exert psychological or physical influence on him in order to eradicate his family feelings for you, then these cases should be recorded, since they can be qualified as mental or physical violence, which is grounds to deprive the mother of parental rights. This impact causes great harm the child’s psyche and is reflected in his entire future life.
4. Deciding to give up fighting ex-wife For the sake of the child’s peace of mind, keep in mind that fatherlessness causes much more harm to the child than fighting for him. Mother cannot cope with aggression alone external environment, she will not completely replace her father in other respects. Mother's new partners will not replace father either.
One of the methods of "reasoning" ex-wife– print out and give articles to read (by E. Ivanova, E. Sullero, A. Golik and other specialists), showing what serious consequences for the child’s psyche are weaned from own father and parenting battles.
5. Apply to any institution in writing and submit a copy against the signature of the receiving person. If they refuse to register the application, then send it by registered mail with notification of delivery. Record the actions of persons violating your parental rights in a protocol signed by at least one witness (preferably two). Audio and video recording helps a lot.
6. When visiting your children, leave irritation, wariness, and tension behind the threshold. Enter them with a smile, even if your enemy is standing behind them. You came to your beloved creature, and not to fight an enemy. If the situation is unfavorable for communication, take the child to another place.
Ignore the attacks. Turn tense situations into humor. Lighten the mood with an anecdote funny story, game.
7. Always bring gifts and do not start criticizing the child right from the doorway. Children should develop a positive reflex to your appearance.
8. Give your child a strong pull factor. It must outweigh the attraction of the opposite environment. It is necessary that the child strives for you. Without this, you will not be able to raise him strictly, because he always has the opportunity to “immigrate” to where they require less from him and pamper him more.
Good way raise a child at your own discretion - go camping with him for several weeks. Advantages: this is very interesting for children, develops their skills, will and independence, gives you the opportunity to show educational rigor in necessary cases, connects the child with the world of your interests, etc. A similar move is an excursion trip to another city, best of all autonomous, so how in this case you will be as free as possible in communication.
9. Meet the teacher kindergarten, future teacher, doctor (if the child is in the hospital). Adults and children around your child need to see that he has a father. This is very important for the child.
10. Introduce your child to your relatives. He must feel both poles of related attraction and support.
11. If you have a girlfriend, the child will be jealous. In her presence, give your child priority attention; he should not see her as a competitor. If your friend is smart, she will understand you; if not, then why do you need her?
To do less mistakes, read good books"Raising children in a single-parent family", "Divorce: collapse or new life" and "Help to divorced parents and their children" and others.
1. There is no point in wasting time contacting the guardianship authority to protect your rights. Even if the guardianship takes your side, its decisions are not binding on the opposing party. If the judge insists on applying for guardianship, keep in mind that any state. the authority must make a decision within a month. In case of delay, immediately contact the court.
2. Do not take long breaks in communication with your child (more than a month), otherwise withdrawal may develop. If the break is more than six months, then you may lose the child completely, since his last name may be changed or he may be adopted by another man without your consent.
3. Never come to your children, even slightly drunk. This will be a gift for your ill-wishers. Do not accept an invitation to have a drink at your mother’s house; you may be reported to the police as a “drunken brawler.”
4. Never criticize or ridicule either his mother or her relatives in the presence of a child. Otherwise, you will cause additional trauma to the child, and he may develop alienation from both the mother and you.
5. Do not give frequent expensive gifts, this will harm both you and your children. The child needs your care first of all.
6. If there are physical obstacles to your access to your child, including the use of physical strength, then never enter into a fight first and without witnesses; in this way you can be provoked into a fight and brought under criminal charges. It should be borne in mind that every citizen has the right to necessary defense, however, if the police intervene, you will need to prove that you were the one who was attacked, which requires witnesses, recorded beatings and other evidence. Prove that all the trump cards are yours. In addition, it should be remembered that the threat of physical harm is also a criminal offense.
I don’t end here, because the topic is vast. I guess, that with common effort we will win and minimize psychological trauma your daughter.
Is it possible to call a father a person who gave you life, but never participated in this life?
Is it possible to restore a broken connection?
“I’ve been stuttering from the very beginning. How should I address you? Dad? I haven’t said this for so long... You left us, you left me and mom... You left when I was three years old, but I remember those rare moments when you came to congratulate me on my birthday and happy new year, and some other holidays... But I saw how much pain you brought to my mother with your coming. She either cried, or was very angry, and mother, mother was the only one for me then. truly close person. And I was ready to do anything to ease her pain. And then I decided... Do you remember, when I was twelve years old, I wrote you a letter and forbade you to come. And you did so... And I for myself, I excluded the word dad and you. And I forgot everything I knew about you. Dad... Dad... I say this to myself, and a cry of pain breaks out of my chest and tears blur my eyes... And I already want not to speak, but to shout: you me abandoned! You betrayed me! Why-u-u-u? Why did you do as I asked? Why did you stop coming? Why did you listen to me then - a little girl, why did you abandon me? I was still waiting for you!!! I kept hoping that the bell would ring and you would come in with a bag of sweets, like before, remember? But you didn’t come... And I so needed your look, your fatherly hugs and kisses, your protection and support... And I suddenly acutely felt how much there was of everything that was not in my life. I actually physically felt this absence. I grew up surrounded by your absence. I did not have a person who would help me move away from my mother, to understand my separateness and difference from her. The gaze of a man was not directed at me, who would watch how over the years my body gradually turns into the body of a woman. I had no grandparents on your side and no stories about them, although I bear their last name. And longing filled my soul more and more. And a wound appeared, and it hurt. Something in me has turned to stone. And I forbade myself to experience pain, and I clearly understood that under no circumstances should I trust men. It’s as if part of my heart was torn off and thrown away... That’s it, I can’t write anymore. Emotions overwhelm me, what I wrote came out in a powerful stream, and my strength has dried up... And my eyes, full of bitter, icy tears, see practically nothing...
Two days passed before I was able to pick up what I wrote to you and read it... Dad, after re-reading my letter, I realized that out of love for my mother, out of solidarity with her, Iherselfabandoned you and your love! And my mother did not have the wisdom not to support me then, a twelve-year-old girl, in such a rash act. And I shared with her her pain and resentment towards you. And I carried my mother’s feelings inside me for a very long time... And I hid my feelings, my true daughter’s feelings for you, very deeply. Dad, daddy..., now I remember your eyes and your loving and warm gaze. Now I know for sure that you loved me. And I cry again, but these are different tears - warm tears...
I asked my mother to give me photographs of you. There was only one - a wedding one. But I see how you carefully and tenderly support your mother’s arm, I see with what love you look at her. You looked at me with the same love, and from this thought my wings grow... and a feeling of freedom appears... Daddy, how I missed this! And I already clearly understand that what happened between you, you and your mother, has absolutely nothing to do with me. It's just your business. I know that I was born in love, even though this love between you was short-lived, but I feel that love of yours, I feel it with every cell of my body, and my soul blossoms from this.
Dad, I don’t know whether we’ll see each other, and what our meeting will be like, I’m not looking that far ahead yet. Now in my second letter to you I just want to say - thank you for giving me life, thank you for your look, full of love and the warmth with which faith, faith in love and trust returned to me. I’m really sorry I didn’t realize this sooner... Your daughter.”
The relationship between father and daughter is always special - warm and very reverent. 50 years ago, one father decided to convey to his daughter an important truth that would help her in life, he put it on paper. Let's find out why this letter resonates with modern parents so much!
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In 1966, investment analyst Harry Brown wrote a letter to his nine-year-old daughter for Christmas that is still quoted today. He explained to the girl that nothing in this world - not even love - should be taken for granted.
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Hello, honey.
It's Christmas and I have the usual problem of what gift to choose for you. I know what makes you happy - books, games, dresses. But I am very selfish. I want to give you something that will stay with you for more than a few days or even years. I want to give you something that will remind you of me every Christmas. And, you know, I think I chose a gift. I will give you one simple truth that I had to learn for many years. If you understand it now, you will enrich your life with hundreds of different ways and this will protect you from a lot of problems in the future.
SO THIS: NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING.
This means that no one lives for you, my child. Because no one is you. Every person lives for himself. The only thing he can feel is his own happiness. If you understand that no one should organize your happiness, you will be freed from expecting the impossible.
This means that no one is obliged to love you. If someone loves you, it means there is something special about you that makes them happy. Find out what it is, try to make it stronger, and then you will be loved even more.
When people do something for you, it's only because they want to do it themselves. Because there is something about you that is important to them - something that makes them want to like you. But not at all because they owe you. If your friends want to be with you, it's not out of a sense of duty.
Nobody should respect you. And some people won't be kind to you. But the moment you learn that no one is obliged to do good to you, and that someone can be unkind to you, you will learn to avoid such people. Because you don't owe them anything either.
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AGAIN: NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING!
You must become the best, first of all, for yourself. Because if you succeed, other people will want to be with you, they will want to give you things in exchange for what you can give them. And someone will not want to be with you, and the reasons will not be in you at all. If this happens, just look for another relationship. Don't let someone else's problem become yours.
The moment you understand that the love and respect of others must be earned, you will no longer expect the impossible and you will not be disappointed. Others are not obligated to share their property, feelings, or thoughts with you. And if they do it, it will be only because you earned it. And then you can be proud of the love you deserve and the sincere respect of your friends. But you should never take all this for granted. If you do this, you will lose all these people. They are not “yours by right.” You have to achieve them and “earn” them every day.
It was like a weight lifted off my shoulders when I realized that no one owed me anything. While I thought I was owed, I spent an awful lot of effort, physical and emotional, to get what I deserved. But in reality, no one owes me good behavior, respect, friendship, politeness or intelligence. And the moment I realized this, I began to get much more satisfaction from all my relationships.
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I focused on people who want to do the things I need them to do. And it has served me well - with friends, business partners, lovers, vendors and strangers. I always remember that I can only get what I need if I enter the world of my interlocutor. I have to understand how he thinks, what he considers important, what he ultimately wants. This is the only way I can get from him something I need. And only by understanding a person can I say whether I really need something from him.
It is not so easy to summarize in one letter what I have managed to understand over many years. But maybe if you re-read this letter every Christmas, its meaning will become a little clearer to you every year.
NO ONE OWES YOU ANYTHING!
Even if the father is physically absent from the child's life, he is present in his fantasies. And the mental dialogue with him continues when the child becomes an adult. This is evidenced by open letter blogger Keanu Gabriel Kirk. He wrote a letter to his father, whom he had never met.
Dear John Doe! 1
I know your name is something else. However, I’m not trying to find out your real name, I don’t see the point. You probably think that I’m now going to say what a bad father you were, how ashamed you should be for abandoning me. You're wrong. I want to say something else...
I forgive you.
I forgive you for not being there - it made me stronger. As a child, when we celebrated Father's Day at school, my grandfather was with me. And if they asked me: “Where is your dad?” – I said that I don’t have a dad, but here is his best deputy. My grandfather was a father himself and therefore knew how to teach me to be strong and become a real gentleman. He always taught me not to capitulate to anyone or anything. He explained to me that you should not allow yourself to be humiliated by anyone, ever.
I forgive you for rejecting me - thanks to this I found those who deserved my affection
I forgive you for rejecting me- thanks to this, I found those who deserved my affection. My grandmother taught me to be polite and decent. She explained to me that you need to remain sincere no matter who you communicate with, because a lie is always worse than even the most unpleasant truth. She did not allow me to show disrespect to other people, and if this happened, the punishment was not long in coming. She had no hesitation here.
I forgive you for not becoming my parent, because my mother was able to more than make up for it. She went to work immediately after I was born. She raised two children while working nine to five and providing for everything we needed. She could not always give us what she dreamed of, but we are eternally grateful to her for everything. She worked like a convict so that during the holidays we could go somewhere and have a wonderful rest. She was present at every important event in my life, at all my performances and concerts, I certainly photographed everything, and in general I was proud of any of my achievements.
It's not that I wanted to prove to you what I'm worth, no, I wanted to prove it to myself
I forgive you for everything because as a result I was able to improve. Without you I went to first grade, without you I received a diploma higher education. I finally came to understand who I am and who I would like to become. Now I know what parenting model I should look up to when I become a father myself. Your absence predetermined my successes, it pushed me forward, motivated me to achieve more.
It's not that I wanted to prove to you what I'm worth, no, I wanted to prove it to myself. Looking back, I see that the relatives who surrounded me, all those people who appeared in my life, they managed to fill the void that arose after your departure.
In general, know: neither the fact that you left, nor the fact that you broke up with your mother, nor the fact that you ran away from problems broke me. The world I live in exists without you. I sincerely hope that you have found your happiness.
I forgive you for the fact that you involuntarily became my father, although you did not need me.
Sincerely,
your son.
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Sad statuses about dad
The most people can be connected with the father different feelings, because for some he is loving and caring, but for others it’s quite the opposite.
Sad statuses about your dad give you the opportunity to feel a little sad about the fact that your father paid you insufficient attention and gave you too little affection and love.
Also, these statuses provide an opportunity to feel a little sad about the fact that the father left the family prematurely for one reason or another.
Interesting and life statuses, which can be read a little below, can reflect a variety of current situations that are typical for many families and fathers.Info
There is one woman, his beloved daughter, in front of whom dad can be himself and not try to look better, more beautiful, more impressive, smarter and more courageous.
The dad who abandoned his family
Don't ruin kindred spirit. Respect them and your mothers! And don’t use the word like a punching bag.
Attention
Live for their sake and their happiness. Don’t look at evil people. Love children more than life, so that the villain dies of envy.
Fathers do not abandon their daughters! After all, in painfully dear eyes, just like in animals, grief is reflected in tears.After exchanging unnecessary phrases, it’s easier to leave and slam the door, and only then with your own eyes, someone else’s, to penetrate the soul of your own losses.
Having justified what may have happened earlier, you have already abandoned your wives, children, mothers... There is no worse act in this life. There is nothing worse than such “crackers”.
Fathers do not abandon their daughters, Deceive their illnesses with your love, There is nothing worse in the world when you leave them alone in trouble.
There is nothing more expensive than their warm little hands, Which beckon and call you along, They hold all of life, the best drawing, Reflection of real days.
Statuses about a father who abandoned his daughter
I will give my life for you, I love you, dad and mom! They say best friend this is mom.. yeah, tell her now. Dad's second girlfriend will already know everything in the morning. A loser is when yesterday you were a virgin and today you are a dad.
Only my dad can fall, ride along the road, get up, dust himself off and say wow, I almost fell! Children's wisdom: if mom laughs at dad's jokes, it means there are guests in the house.
For me, happiness is when my wife says “Beloved” and the child “Daddy”... every day! Perfect family- Dad works, mom is beautiful. There are moments in every girl’s life when she wants to cuddle up to a strong man’s shoulder and say: “Daddy, take me!!!” In our family it’s usually like this: as our dad said, everything will definitely be my mother’s way! How nice it is to have a daughter! She may be just like her dad, but she’s beautiful and smart, and that’s my fault.
Fathers don't abandon their daughters
Every little person needs a dad. Dad. And not just a word.
Treasure fathers just as much as mothers. Dads talk less, but they worry about us just as much as moms.
Everyone has their own idea of a “Miracle”. But only one “miracle” can call you dad and mom.
It's so nice when everyone has DAD. And my soul doesn't hurt. It’s great that dad loves mom, everything else is vanity.
We’ll buy everything else; if we have money, if we don’t have it, we’ll create it with our own hands.
But it is very important that children live in happiness. And they grew up as normal people.
Today, in the morning, complete harmony reigns in our family: the baby took “Vrednolin”, mother took “Stervozol”, and dad took “Papazol”.
Everyone is happy! Dad! When they come to ask for my hand, don’t fall on your knees, don’t say “You are our Savior!!!”, but just quietly nod your head. You need to love dad, mom, chocolates and summer... The rest is nonsense.
Statuses about dad
She loves him either way... Daddy, don’t be angry with me, forgive me... I love you very much, I’m lonely, I miss you very much, I’m sad and sad... Scarier than the beast there is nothing in the house than dad is an alcoholic! With this, the betrayal of a girlfriend and beloved guy cannot be compared... Everything passes someday, all that remains are text messages in the phone, a folder with photos on the table and broken heart, which no one can mend... Best status: Some dads behave badly in the best possible way... It seems that he had nothing to do with it, he was just passing by, and he has no idea where the child came from. It’s as if mom found it herself... in the cabbage! It was not thought or assumed that sneezing at the wrong time is prohibited! Dad was talking on the phone and said: “Do I look like an IDIOT?”, and I sneezed... He doesn’t care about me at all. Okay, he's as calm as an elephant.
Statuses about dad with meaning
All a child needs to be happy is a mom and dad. Remember this.
My family is strange: dad talks to his car, mom with flowers, sister with cats, I’m the only normal one - with a computer and phone.
Let dad hear, Let dad come, Let dad definitely find me! After all, this doesn’t happen in the world. There’s a castle outside, and I’m in the toilet! If a man, after work or on weekends, wants to spend time with his family and not with friends, this does not mean that he is henpecked! This means that the most best husband and dad in the world! Sometimes I close my eyes and remember again. How mom took you to first grade, how dad carried you from graduation! If my pasta burns, it means “crooked!” You don’t know how to cook!” And if it’s dad’s, then - “mm, with a little toast.” The daughter is the only woman in front of whom dad shouldn’t try to look smart, strong, and courageous. For a daughter, her dad is already the best.
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About them, about the family! A man is looking for a woman who looks like his mother; and finds a mother-in-law who looks like dad! And in this world you can’t trust anyone except mom and dad, believe me.
Meeting a prince on a white horse is my dream, but meeting dad on a white horse is my 3rd wish.
For mom with a mountain, for dad with a wall, for a friend with a brick, and for yourself with yourself!!! - Dad, meet me, this is Alexander. - Come in, Alexander, have lunch with us. - Dad, Alexander is full! - Alexander, don’t piss, come in! I wanted to tell him that he would soon become a dad, but he beat me to it by saying that we were breaking up... The most important contribution in raising a child is the right dad. Mom is super, dad is great, whoever doesn’t believe him in the eye! - Dad, do you have any friends? - No, son, this is fantastic! No matter how important dad is, when mom is not in the mood, everyone follows a thread.
There is no dearer soul in this life, The Human Age is not so long. I ask you, forgive their mothers, Those who are dear to them just like you! The sweetest nectar is on the cheeks. Kissing them, only a father can understand. Gone with the wind, at all crossroads, the power of daughters’ love will be waiting for you.
And it doesn’t matter when or where, Fate will force you to play with dolls, Only in a child’s soul and hope, Love for your father never dies.
Clinging to them heart to heart, Take care of what is seething behind the fragile wall. And in the lost time of crying and toiling, Never forget that your soul hurts.
And when your life becomes less than sugar, and your health goes to hell in orbit, crouching alone, letting off steam, everyone will answer before God’s judgment.
Fathers! Look a little ahead, No matter what happens in this life, everyone dies. A father is the future great-grandfather and grandfather of Daughters, they choose husbands like fathers.
Statuses about a dad who abandoned his daughter and went to another family are sad
They say that people love to play with love. I will reproach adults: “I don’t want to cry! I don’t want partings, your friendship is like that... Everyone stronger than desires– to be one family!” Mom and dad broke up, despite all the tears, and yesterday they hugged their daughter with four arms. (N.
Samonium ■) Don’t quarrel, mom and dad, I beg you... “Don’t quarrel, mom and dad, I beg you... Listen to the baby’s advice... I can’t imagine life without both of you! My soul hurts for you two... You truly loved each other so much that God entrusted you with giving birth to a child. But did you really forget about everything, some couple of years later? Do you remember, dad, how he stroked his beloved mother’s belly and kissed him tenderly? Don’t break up your family, for God’s sake. There’s no need for tears again, why a scandal? With each other, you try differently. Start a conversation about the most important things... After all, the main thing is that you have a healthy boy, Who loves you.
I grew up listening to you. My mother embroidered icons for me, I stroked them with my hand at night. And then your gentle voice disappeared, I haven’t heard it for a long time. My mother sobbed so inconsolably, And you probably don’t care. How so and why did I do something wrong? Don’t hurt my mother! If you wanted me to be born, You would have created comfort and paradise for us. You broke my mother’s soul into pieces, I can glue these parts together easily. Dad, you know, children are happiness. You will be far from happiness... You know, your aunts told your mother, That you go with others day after day... Dad, were they waiting for you too, Leaving your mother at home with her belly? I will grow a little in my tummy, Surrounded by my mother's love. I feel the warmth of her palm, I hear whose - a voice: “Don’t cry...” Mom embroiders icons for me, She strokes her tummy at night... Dad, there is no such thing as a former child... Being a father is beyond your capabilities...
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