Men do not talk about their feelings when communicating with you, because they themselves are not always fully aware of them.And for some of them, saying “I love you” is a very big problem.
But don't worry!
You can find out what the man you're dating thinks about you without asking him. In addition to words of love, each person shows some signs of his feelings. If you are more observant, you will understand and learn the whole “truth” about a man’s true feelings.
You want confirmation of love right away on the first date, but the man is only looking at you. And even if he likes you very much, he needs time to understand his feelings for you. But if his further behavior contains these six signs, he is clearly in love with you!
Sign 1: He makes you feel special.
A man can like a woman or not, there is no third option.
A man cannot play like a woman - not call specifically to test her feelings and look at her reaction (except in pickup situations, but there you can still figure out a man’s insincerity).
A man either communicates with a woman or does not communicate.
If he doesn’t call a woman, it means he doesn’t want to communicate with her, and nothing can make him want to do this.
A man will not put much effort into pleasing any woman and pleasing her.
If he makes some effort to make sure your time with him is fun and interesting, it's because he cares about you and he loves you.
If he does something for you that makes you feel special, it's a sign that he really loves you.
If he thinks in advance what you will do during your date, if he gives you not just gifts, but takes into account your interests and knows exactly what will make you happy - this is a very good sign for your relationship.
Sign 2: He hangs out with you on weekends.
Saturday and Sunday are special times for free men. They always make plans for these days to have a good time.
After a working week, I want to really relax and unwind.
So, if a man is not very interested in a certain girl, he would rather spend this time with his buddies.
But when a man asks you what you will do on Saturday and Sunday evenings, he is clearly interested in you, he is interested in communicating with you.
If he is going to spend this time with you, then he knows that this time is guaranteed to go well.
If you want to spend the whole weekend with him, he is really in love with you.
Sign 3. He begins to make life plans with you (he includes you in his life).
When a guy calls you or texts you, it means he really enjoys spending time with you.
If he invites you somewhere to spend time together, he really wants to see you.
If a man only wants sex, he will invite you to a hotel or rent an apartment.
But if a man invites you to a movie, to a concert, or just for a walk, he really wants to be with you and see you.
If a man asks you about your plans for the next day, week, holidays, summer - this is a sign that he is interested in you, that he is in love with you.
And he wants to make sure that you include him in your plans and spend time with him before you have anything else planned.
Sign 4. He wants to touch you and hug you.
If the man you are dating likes to touch you, for example, on your hands when talking, on your hair and face when kissing, this is a sign that he is in love with you.
Men are always ready to hug the women they love.
All men have sex, but they are affectionate and gentle only with the women they love.
A man who meets for sex will never stroke a woman’s hair or kiss her, he will not whisper tender words to her.
A man who meets a woman just for sex will try to leave after it; heart-to-heart conversations are not always included in the meeting program.
But if you spent the night with a man and in the morning he hugs you, if in the morning he is as gentle and affectionate as he was at night, this is a very good sign for your relationship.
This is a sign that this man is in love with you!
Sign 5. A man is jealous of you.
If a man is in love with you, then he will want to be the best for you.
And any comparison with other men that is not in his favor will make him angry.
He may also be angry with your male friends or any men you greet on the street.
Sign 6. He introduces you to his friends and parents.
A man is never afraid to show a woman to his family and friends if he is happy with her.
And if he introduces you to his friends, that's a good sign.
If he introduces you to his family, that's great!
This means that he really appreciates you and is in love with you, and he wants everyone to know it.
It is difficult for a man to bring just any girl to his home.
So, if he introduces you to his family and circle of friends, and does everything to make them like you and you, he is in love with you.
If these signs are not present for a long time, then perhaps you need to talk to your man about his intentions.
These signs will not immediately appear in his behavior. This takes time.
And if you don’t rush a man, don’t reproach him for not being in too much of a hurry to trust you, but if you simply love him and enjoy communicating with him, then everything will end very well!
P.S. These, unfortunately, are not signs that a man will marry a woman, although everything is possible in our world......
Incredible facts
Love is one of those things that is really hard to understand until you finally experience it yourself.
Often we can confuse the concept of love with other feelings - passion, affection, gratitude.
People who have been together for a long time get used to each other, their relationship turns into a routine. And this routine becomes synonymous with love
When a man is in love
However, when love is real, it is usually felt by both people in the relationship. And if on the part of a woman, a man immediately recognizes love, then the fair sex often has some doubts.
So, how to recognize love from a man? Of course, first of all, his actions are important. But there are other signs that a man is truly in love with you.
For example, a guy's text messages can reveal a lot about his intentions towards a girl.
Here are 10 text messages that men only send to their significant other when they are truly in love, especially when it comes to the initial stages of a relationship:
What a man in love writes
1. "I'm proud of you"
Pride is a product of love. If something in life makes us proud, there is a good chance that we feel a deep sense of love for it.
Think about it. Pride usually means a feeling of satisfaction in some accomplishment.
Therefore, if you are proud of another person, you are likely to consider their achievements and successes as your own.
2. Unplanned SMS “I miss you”
An unexpected sweet message, such as "I miss you" during the day is a great option to show that you care about the person.
SMS messages such as “I love you” or “I miss you” indicate that the person who sent the message is thinking about the person throughout the day, no matter where he is.
If a guy texts you that he misses you, it's probably a sign that he thinks about you a lot.
3. “Have you eaten yet?”
At first glance, this is an absolutely simple, most ordinary text. For example, the sender can easily be hungry himself.
However, take a deeper and deeper look at this message. If a guy sends you this text while you're in a relationship with him, it could be a sign of love.
Such a text is a small way to show a woman that a man cares about her, treats her with care and is worried about whether she ate on time.
What kind of SMS does a man in love write?
4. "You don't have to go to the gym!"
Such a message is another confirmation of his love and sympathy. This is another way to tell a girl that a man wants her to be who she is. Love is the ability to accept a person with all his pros and cons.
Of course, theoretically, a man wants to see a beautiful, well-groomed and fit lady next to him. But once he falls in love, things like not having cellulite and having a perfect figure suddenly begin to seem unimportant and insignificant.
5. “I watch this movie/read this book/listen to this song and it reminds me of you.”
Once you fall in love, everything throughout the day will remind you of the one you love. Reminders of the object of your affection will be everywhere.
Therefore, if a man writes to a woman that some book, movie or song reminds him of her, most likely he is in love.
6. "Can I call you?"
Hearing the voice of the woman he loves is what every man in love wants. If he wants to call you, it means that he is constantly thinking about you, that you are always on his mind, and he does not want to waste time on correspondence.
7. “Let’s spend some time tonight, just you and me.”
What could be nicer than this phrase?
Perhaps the most important thing a woman wants to hear, besides words of love, is that her man wants to be near her.
Many representatives of the stronger sex claim that they are not bored at all. Like, real men are males, they don’t know how to get bored and indulge in all sorts of sweet suffering. There are always many bright females around them, and the man has no time to think and get bored about just one. But believe me, this is not so. Even though the stronger sex will not cry at the window and complain to their friends about painfully missing their beloved, but they also know how to be sensual, love and miss.
Therefore, if in response to your innocent question: “Do you miss me?”, the man will frown sternly and answer: “Me? Yes, what are you doing! Rest assured: he misses you, he just doesn’t want to admit it.
Remember this and do not judge your young man harshly.
Frequently asked questions and answers
How to make a guy miss you?
1) You need to disappear from his life for a while. If you are constantly close to him, then it is natural that he will not miss you. In addition, it is not at all easy to voluntarily leave a loved one. But this is the only way you will give him time and space to understand, as well as the opportunity to realize how much he needs you in your absence.
2) You can be very busy for a while or just pretend to be, even if in fact you are not. The next time, talking with your partner, when he asks a question about what you are doing, you don’t need to give a definite answer, you can just laugh it off. This way you will show that you are a cheerful and easy-going person, but at the same time you will make the person agonize over the question of what you are actually doing in your absence.
3) If you do not live together, then you can make a man miss you by forgetting some of your things in his house. When he comes across her in his apartment, he, of course, will immediately remember you. The main thing is that you do not urgently need the forgotten item.
4) The most effective way is to become the life of the party, so that he always feels at ease and comfortable next to you. If you spend time with your partner, then you should not quarrel over trifles. And then, in any case, during separation, he will miss you and wait for your return.
How to make a guy miss you from a distance?
Constantly tell him how dear he is to you, how much you miss him, how much you look forward to meeting him. This will not be perceived as pressure, it is an expression of your feelings. And, believe me, he will miss you from the first second, as soon as he stops seeing you.
Keeps in touch
If a man is far from you, and you are tormented by guesses whether he misses you or has forgotten and does not remember, remember: if he misses you, he will definitely write a few words in the form of SMS or email, depending on how convenient it is for him. Or he will call. This already depends on the capabilities of your young man.
He will definitely remember you, no matter how far away he is, and no matter how busy he is.
But the degree of his “boredom” or the sincerity of his feelings should be judged not by the number of text messages or calls written, but by his words. If a man writes routine phrases, such as “how are you”, “what are you doing”, “it’s warm here, how about you?” And the answer to all questions is “clear,” or something like that - rest assured, your man either does not miss you sincerely or simply does not want to lose you as an object of sexual pleasure or a sweet companion. But if a man writes one SMS, but with gentle words: “Are you dressed warmly?”, “Don’t forget to put on a hat,” “Are you not sick: it’s terrible cold outside,” “I can’t write, I’m busy all the time,” rather Everything, he really misses and loves. After all, sincere feelings are, first of all, care and reverent attitude.
Judge not by the number of messages scrawled somehow or phrases spoken out of place on the phone, judge by the intonation, words, tenderness in the voice.
Remember: men find it difficult to express their feelings, sometimes they don’t know how to do it at all. But if they really love and miss you, they will find a way to tell you about it.
Can be annoying
Many men who are faced with a feeling of longing for a woman feel uncomfortable. They often don't understand what to do. Therefore, instead of a tender feeling, some kind of primitive, incomprehensible instinct of jealousy and annoyance breaks through in them.
A bored man is worse than an annoying August fly.
He constantly calls, sends messages, asks a lot of stupid questions, and begins to shower his lady with unnecessary funny gifts.
Many guys give girls figurines, perfume and a sea of flowers. Some shower girls with sweets, invite them to go hiking, to the cinema or to a cafe. But very often they do all this in a way that is awkward and incomprehensible. In a word, they do not know how to be bored. And this feeling baffles them.
But relax, men won’t be bored for long. This will happen to them after the first night together or during the course of living together.
Unusual online activity
Sometimes, when a man cannot tell you that he really misses you, he starts liking your photos from a hundred years ago, writing various “cute” things on the wall, and posting cute statuses or photos on his page.
But all this is designed for you to go to his page, see and appreciate. And everything will work out for you. Well, something like this. He “sort of” takes the first step, and you must evaluate him. But the man himself will not write first or (whatever!) call.
If you see that your man has suddenly “moved” online and is giving you ambiguous hints: think, maybe the man is really bored. But he is ashamed or embarrassed to admit it.
Initiates reconciliation after a quarrel
If you don’t know whether your man is bored after a stormy showdown, and your pride does not allow you to call him, wait a few days.
Truly bored men give up very quickly: maybe a day, maybe two. Well, a week at most.
But these are already quite serious and principled examples. There are few of them and they get angry infrequently, but for a long time.
After a quarrel, it is better not to take any steps and wait. You're a woman. Pretend that you are not bored and that you don’t care at all.
You just wait for your man to come running to you with flowers in two days. And he will come running, rest assured. But he doesn’t come running: well, that means he wasn’t yours. There will be another one.
Let him be bored later. But it's no use.
Frequently asked questions and answers
How to behave if a guy from the army says he misses you?
There is no need to worry or think about something bad. This proves that he cares about you and wants you to wait for him. Answer in kind, he will be very pleased.
If a guy writes that he is bored, what does that mean?
An indifferent person does not call or write just like that. Men value their time and energy so much that they will not waste it on empty SMS with a girl they don’t like. Otherwise, they will not only listen, but also dedicate their interlocutor to painful moments of their life, talk about problems and share their joy and goals.
Should you tell a man that you miss him?
Depending on what kind of man he is and what you want from him, you need to either hold him, maintaining a strict balance, seem inaccessible, but open your feelings in time, or be as open as possible. If this is “the one,” playing with him is a bad idea. You need to trust yourself. And be sure that he reciprocates completely.
Why is a guy bored, but doesn’t write or call?
Start writing and calling him yourself. Look at his reaction. He will answer in 2 words or, on the contrary, he will begin to communicate with you normally and your first step will be an impetus for correspondence! Maybe he’s just not used to communicating like this and doesn’t know that he’s causing you discomfort with his silence!
How to hint to a guy that you miss him?
The main thing is to be unobtrusive towards your loved one. It is better to avoid the word “I miss” itself, because it can be perceived as a complaint or reproach to your loved one. Better write “waiting.” This word has not yet become so commonplace and sounds very positive. It also reflects the fact that you are attracted to this person, that he gives you pleasant feelings.
Why does a guy miss a girl?
You can be bored for one reason - if the girl is not indifferent. If a guy shows signs that he misses you and is looking forward to meeting you, then you have an important role in his life.
If a guy misses you, does that mean he loves you?
This is considered a sign of falling in love. If for some reason you cannot be near your chosen one, he gets bored and openly demonstrates this: he writes SMS and often calls, talks about how he cannot imagine his life without you. Of course, there should be moderation in everything, however, if you go on vacation for 3 weeks and during all this time you do not hear a word from your “Prince Charming”, then he probably has no chance of becoming king, since There seems to be no love in such a situation.
Who is more bored: a guy or a girl?
One of the main differences between men and women is emotionality. Men do not show their emotions and sometimes act “cold”. Women tend to be more sentimental and tend to express their feelings outward. When a woman misses her loved one, it can be very difficult for her to pull herself together and get her to do everyday activities. Mentally, she will always return to the one to whom she gave her heart, and this will affect the quality of her work and her enthusiasm for this, or rather, the lack thereof.
The guy wrote that he was bored, what should I reply?
What signs can you use to understand that a guy is bored?
He constantly texts you.
- He gets very angry when you don’t answer the phone.
- Constantly asks to send him a photo.
- Likes photos on social networks published several years ago.
- At the beginning of the week, he already offers you leisure for the weekend.
- He tries in every possible way to surprise you.
- Tells his friends about you.
Can a guy miss his ex?
Of course it can. Just like a girl can miss her ex. This is normal. Old feelings do not always evaporate. If a guy begins to remember some moments spent with his ex-girlfriend and he finds it pleasant, then a hint of boredom cannot be avoided.
The truth may be very bitter, but a toxic relationship is probably not what you want. It is better to find a worthy partner who will not use you only for sex. Some patterns of behavior that we will discuss below will help you determine whether your suspicions are correct.
Steps
Pay attention to when he contacts you
Does he only contact you after dark? If your boyfriend only calls you when the sun goes down and the stars appear in the sky, it's probably not because he's in the mood for stargazing. He is set up for something completely different. If he only calls you at night, unless he is a doctor with a crazy work schedule, then it is likely that all he has on his mind is sex.
Does he only communicate with you on weekdays? If he only craves companionship on weeknights but you hardly ever hear from him on the weekends, that's a sure sign that the weekends are reserved for his #1 option or for a woman he thinks is actually worth pursuing. If he disappears on Fridays or Saturdays, but on Tuesday he is always free for you, then he only needs you for sex.
Does he only contact you occasionally? If he shows up once or twice a week, doesn't ask you out, and at such moments he can't wait to come, all because he only wants sex from you. If you want to meet him, but he is always busy for a whole week, and then suddenly calls you at midnight on Wednesday, it is very likely that there can be no talk of any love - he only wants sex.
Does he only communicate with you when it's convenient for him? If the question: “How was your day?” - or: “How was your difficult test?” - he won’t answer anything, which means that he is absolutely not in the mood to maintain small talk. But if one night you tell him, “I want to see you,” and you hear him put his foot on the gas pedal, you have a problem.
Is he always busy? Having a busy schedule is quite normal in today's world. But if your boyfriend can't find time for dinner and a movie, but can always find time for sex, then the truth is - he's not busy, he just wants to appear that way. If you know he has time to hang out with friends, go to a sporting event, and watch hours of TV with his brother, but you're too busy to go out on a Sunday afternoon, he just doesn't want to spend the money on you. time.
Does he never invite you anywhere? If he regularly comes to you for lovemaking or arranges foreplay only on his couch, then he really does not want anything other than your body. He may invite you to dinner every now and then, but he only does it to keep you. But if you feel like you'll never see the outside world with him, then he probably doesn't want you to be a part of his daily life.
Pay attention to what you do together
- Ask him what he thinks, feels, what he is interested in, and watch his reaction. If he immediately backs down, then you have a problem.
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Is everything he does about sex? All you do is have sex? Do you do anything else together? Do you go to the movies, the theater, restaurants, take dance classes... anything? Or is sex all you do when you're with each other? Does he insist on positions and forms of sexual activity that make you uncomfortable? If the development of sexual relationships is the only topic of interest to him in your society, then he needs you only for love pleasures and nothing more.
- Even if it's not literally true, you have to trust your gut.
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Notice how quickly he leaves after making love. Stays occasionally or never? If yes, then you are one of his nightly activities and not the love of his life. If he gives you a sloppy kiss and then starts packing up his clothes, then he doesn't want to spend the night with you or he'll feel like you're in a real relationship. And if he always comes up with a convenient excuse to leave, then that’s even worse.
- Of course, he can tell you that he needs to get up early tomorrow, but then why was he not too lazy to come to you at one in the morning?
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Does he only kiss you before sex? In most relationships, a kiss is a quick and sweet way to show your love and intimacy. People kiss while walking, in a dark bar, at the cinema or on a Monday morning, all out of desire to just kiss. If every time you kiss your boyfriend, he starts touching your private parts, then it is very likely that he only wants sex; For him, kisses serve as the beginning of love pleasures.
- Pay attention to his level of affection. Does he ever express the desire to just cling to you or hug you for no reason? If not, he probably only wants sex.
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Do you never talk to his friends? You've been having sex for months and still haven't seen any of his friends? Does he spend all his time with his friends without you and never invites you to join them? There may be several reasons for this: he is too shy to tell everyone around you about your relationship; he doesn't want to invest in your relationship; he is a womanizer and loves to flirt with other girls, so he simply doesn’t need you around.
Do you never talk about your personal life? If all there is between you is talking about sex or how you want each other, then your relationship is only about sex. Yes, many relationships start like this - partners are obsessed with each other, often have sex and talk about sex. But if this continues for a long time and you have not progressed beyond love pleasures, then your relationship will no longer be able to be deeper than it is now.
Pay attention to what he says
Doesn't he share personal information? Men who use women for sex often give little information about themselves. With such guys, you can only learn about them from friends, from personal observations and general conversations. Doesn't he tell you anything about himself? This says a lot, so it's worth thinking about.
Notice how he behaves when you talk about yourself. How quickly does he get bored when you discuss your work, hobbies, your activities and general daily problems? He stops the discussion and interrupts it with the phrase “how about laying down on the couch”? If this is so, he may pretend that he is tired of the emotional entanglements and wants to abstract himself from them without any feelings of guilt. Sometimes such guys take on the role of a psychologist, give out advice, but never share their problems and joys, so as not to involve you in their life.
Is he interested in your well-being? Have you ever heard him ask why you were upset, what your day was like or why you were crying? If he seems completely indifferent to your emotions, then the reason is probably not because he is awkward or shy, but because he simply does not care. If he only needs you for sex, then any complex and confusing feelings you have will be an obstacle for him and nothing more.
Is he telling you he doesn't want a relationship? Many women don't want to see what's right in front of their eyes, even if they can hear it. If he told you that he is looking for casual dating, that he has no time for anything serious, or that he is simply not cut out for a serious relationship, then he probably meant it. You may have brushed it off, thought he was just trying to play around, or were convinced you would change him. If he has told you that he is not interested in anything more serious than sex, then you need to reconsider your relationship.
Does he talk to you about your future together? You've been together for several months, but haven't talked about what you'll do in the next two, let alone next summer? If you have been communicating for more than a year, but have not taken steps to come to something more serious, then you are probably only a temporary companion for him, and not a life partner.
All he talks about is sex? Is he interested in emotional discussions about feelings? Does he discuss what direction your relationship is going in? Or is he more interested in you buying new lingerie or running to the pharmacy this morning for an extra supply of condoms?
Look for other signs
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Listen to your intuition. Wake up! Even if you view your relationship as possible, your sixth sense is trying to warn you otherwise. Look around and assess the situation. How does this situation make you feel? Are you happy? Are you satisfied with the relationship? If not, it's time to think about whether they are worth continuing.
- You know what? There are still many fish in the sea, and beautiful guys in the world. Value yourself - “find” your self-worth, “put” it back where it was, awaken self-respect and maintain physical health, emotional sanity and a clear mind.
Pay attention to the phone, especially if it rings when it's near you. If he comes over and his phone keeps ringing and he keeps looking at it and then closes it, it could be because ladies are calling him 24 hours a day. If he is talking, and as soon as you enter the room, he suddenly puts away the phone, then you are clearly not the only girl in his life. And if he never leaves his phone unattended, even for a second, it could be because he doesn't want you to see his voluptuous messages with others.
Check out all the girls on his social media pages. Look who he is friends with on Facebook, VKontakte, and so on. Check his profile - perhaps on the wall of one of the social networks (or each!) you will find tons of messages from other girls with whom he flirts all over the Internet; Perhaps you will also find dozens of photographs of him there, drunk and surrounded by barely dressed women. If so, now you know where he goes when he's out of your sight for five days, and it's not just because he's had a crazy week at work.
Please pay attention to the warnings. Have other women approached you to warn you to stay away from him? Maybe there were friends who said that he was a womanizer and that he would never be your boyfriend? Unless you think you can pacify and change him, then this is a warning sign - it's time for you to say goodbye to him without delay. Don't think that you are different, or that these women don't know what they're talking about. If you've heard this from more than one person, it's probably true.
Is your relationship progressing? Has your relationship changed in six months? Have you met his friends? Have you discussed the upcoming months of life? Do you go shopping together? Do you do anything together, like all normal people? If he is in no hurry to confess his love, this is normal. But even if he rarely says the phrase “I really like you,” you don’t move forward because he sees you only as a toy.
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