Every man dreams of having the best woman in the world next to him. Of course, each of them has their own ideal - long-legged or with a large bust, thin or inclined to be overweight, tall or tiny. But not only external data is important for representatives of the stronger sex, character, temperament and much more... What does male psychology say? How to become the best for a man?
Male psychology: How to become the best for a man?
There are several ways to achieve your desired goal and become better for your beloved man.
Men really like to be praised, so be sure to do it, even if he just screwed a light bulb into a floor lamp or carried a heavy bag from the market. Compliments work wonders.
You must support him in all his projects, even if you know in advance that they will not lead to anything good. However, know how to prompt your man in time to give up on some idea, just do it carefully so that he thinks that this is his own decision. And under no circumstances should you scold or criticize him.
A woman must force her beloved to be better than he is. And a woman’s cunning will help with this: just one word, inserted into a conversation at the right time, can perform magic - a man will want to look better, succeed in business and begin to take care of his health and appearance. However, do not forget that his wonderful girlfriend must match him. This means take care of yourself - clean, tidy, combed and smelling nice. And, of course, you should definitely give up such home clothes as a washed robe - find a replacement for it in the form of leggings and a T-shirt or a tracksuit.
In the age of feminism, many women are restrained in expressing their feelings, but it is so important for a man to have a gentle and kind companion next to him. Therefore, stop carrying luggage from the store yourself and transfer these responsibilities to strong men’s shoulders. Give up the habit of yelling and using obscene language - this turns guys off, because you look more like their friend from a pub or colleague, and not like a beautiful lady.
You will never be the best for him if he doesn't love you. Although, if you do not reciprocate the feelings of a man in love, then very soon you will also cease to be wonderful in his eyes. Only reciprocity will help make you desirable.
An ideal woman should be able to “make” her man always want to come home. To do this, he needs to have a pleasant atmosphere, coziness, comfort and a person who will always understand and help in a difficult situation. You should be sincerely interested in his hobbies - football, fishing, cars or computers, listen carefully to his stories about them: ask him questions on these topics, and then be sure to praise how great he is for being so knowledgeable about computers, cars, bicycles or football.
You need to periodically surprise your loved one - meet him in erotic lingerie, arrange a romantic dinner, or give him, for example, if he is an avid cyclist, a bicycle tube, or invite him to a concert of his favorite band. It is important to show him that you value and respect him.
Be patient with his shortcomings in everyday life: he throws his socks around - put them away, doesn’t wash the dishes after eating - wash them, etc. Just don’t shout, don’t make a sour face, but kindly ask him to fulfill your request next time. If he does this, be sure to praise him, or even better, tell your friend about this in front of him, how neat, attentive, economical he is, in general, the best!
Well, and most importantly, believe that you are the most wonderful woman in the world, then your man will believe you too! After all, being the best for your loved one is not so difficult if you follow these tips. Even if not to everyone and not at once...
In order for a relationship to be strong and strong, you must always be interesting to your partner. Then there will be no need to look for what is missing with other people. This task is not easy, constantly improving is hard work. Daily and exhausting at times. But the goal, how to become the best for him, justifies the means.
In a relationship with a man, this task is further aggravated by the fact that ladies are sometimes overly emotional and provoke unnecessary stress in their stronger half. Also, the postulate that “men love with their eyes” has not been canceled. Therefore, the transformation from “just a wife” into the woman of your dreams is a complex process that includes both adjusting behavior and improving appearance.
Behavior with a man
This is the first and most important thing that will help you improve your relationship. This is a surefire way to become the best for him. Because it is the psychological aspect of your behavior that affects the entire relationship.
- We need to maintain independence. This is important in any relationship. And not only financial independence, but, most importantly, psychological. It is the behavior of a woman, showing that a man is the whole meaning of her life, that will scare off her partner. It is psychologically difficult, and comparable to fatherhood. The feeling that a man is overly dependent on him burdens him with unnecessary responsibility. Therefore, it is better to leave some time free from relationships for yourself - for hobbies and your friends.
- You need to give your partner independence. The second most important rule of relationships. After all, it is importunity and excessive control that men dislike most of all. Therefore, when trying to achieve the goal of becoming the best for your chosen one, you need to remember this. And limit the number of calls per day, because... men, especially very busy ones, do not like to be distracted from business. Even to talk to your woman. This also applies to his free time. You shouldn’t be offended or make a scandal if your chosen one prefers an evening with friends or a fishing trip. It's his right. And you need to show your respect for his independence.
- Self confidence. Constant complaints about one's appearance, problems at work and other aspects of negative information are considered unnecessary by men. Your partner already has enough problems of his own to pay attention and console you over such trifles. It is worth showing more self-confidence. Even if you don’t like something, sometimes you need to keep silent about it, because a man will think that since you don’t see any shortcomings, maybe there aren’t any.
Appearance and improvement of life
In addition to correct behavior, you must also not forget that you should always be well-groomed. And at the same time manage to be a homemaker.
- Never forget about a beautiful hairstyle and manicure. Even if you are a housewife. Being attractive is a kind of weapon for women, so if you don’t use it, your competitors might. You don't have to look chic every day. But elegant and well-groomed is a must.
- Watch your figure. A beautiful figure is a sign of health and youth, so you need to constantly monitor it. This will make you look fit and youthful, which is incredibly attractive to men.
- Choose the right wardrobe. Even trendy things will be out of place if they don’t suit you. Clothing should highlight the features of your appearance, making you brighter and more interesting. Therefore, the outfits can be simple, but they must suit your look.
- Keep your home clean. This will provide both comfort and a desire to invite guests. This is what can “revive” any home.
- Cook deliciously. Probably the most important rule for maintaining everyday life. Men love to eat delicious food, so don’t be afraid to experiment with cooking. And your chosen one will appreciate it.
Anyone who does not strive to improve every day will never succeed in life. The desire to be more beautiful, smarter and wiser is inherent only to people who understand and know that there is no other way to achieve success in life. There are many beautiful, talented people in the world, so generously gifted by nature that others can only regret that they were not included in the list of such lucky ones. But without perseverance and desire, nothing in life will work out. Therefore, become the best if you want to be proud of yourself all your life. And we will tell you how to do this right now.
Where to begin
In order to become the best, you need to cultivate certain qualities in yourself. Let's talk about this in more detail.
The main quality of the best girl is self-confidence
Create a list of your strengths and weaknesses. Write everything you think is necessary on a piece of paper and place it in a visible place. Only understanding your own wonderful qualities will allow you to gain self-confidence, because without it it is impossible to become a better girl. If you suffer from insecurity and cannot objectively assess your strengths, find out how you can increase your self-confidence. Every person can force others to accept and recognize him if he believes in himself and what he does. No matter how a person tries to demonstrate confidence, without inner deep faith in himself it will never be felt either by him or by those around him.
Believe in yourself, learn to love yourself, sincerely and devotedly. No matter how it sounds, only self-love will ensure you success in achieving your own desires. Lack of self-acceptance and subconscious rejection can ruin your life and prevent you from becoming what you want.
To become a better girl - learn to listen
An equally important place in the list of a girl’s best qualities is the ability to listen. Most people want to have a person nearby whom they can tell about their problems, dreams and plans, a person who will understand them, give advice or support them in difficult times. Learn to listen to what people around you say. Learn not just to listen, but to feel the interlocutor, his emotions and experiences. By being sensitive to what you hear, you will always be able to find and say the right words. And it doesn’t matter who you’re talking to - parents, relatives, girlfriends, strangers or your beloved man, everyone wants to be understood. A person who knows how to listen and hears his interlocutor will always be loved and respected by others for his sensitivity and compassion. And those who want to become the best must have these qualities.
Features of the best person
If you want to become the best person, be sure to adhere to the following rules:
Help, kindness and mercy come first
Decent behavior is the quality of the best girl
Equally important to becoming the best person is the ability to behave and speak correctly. Obscene language, rudeness and harshness will never decorate a girl, no matter how she looks.
Education and culture
To become the best girl possible, constantly educate yourself. Read books, learn foreign languages. Knowledge of any foreign language will be a real decoration and will complement the list of your advantages. Also, don’t just read, adding to the list of books you’ve read, but choose literature that will help you look at yourself and the world around you differently. Literature and the knowledge gained will expand your horizons, make you better understand the people around you and become a reliable compass when choosing a path. And men, no matter what they talk about their beautiful appearance, will be very happy to communicate with that girl who can carry on a conversation on any topic and is always happy to learn something new. Of course, a woman must take care of herself, be able to create her own style and always remain on top. But when choosing a life partner, men most often give preference not only to beautiful and well-groomed women, but also to smart women who know how to behave with dignity. Just don’t try to impress a man with your knowledge, use it skillfully and at the right moment. Otherwise, you will be mistaken for an overly abstruse person who is too proud of the fact that she is superior in intelligence, although this may not be the case at all.
What does the best girl mean?
And now we offer you the opinions of experts on how to become the best.
Change your lifestyle
If you have not yet met love, be sure to reconsider your lifestyle. Stop sitting at home and waiting for life to change. Walk around the city, go to the movies, sign up for self-defense or table tennis courses. Become a member of the Society for the Protection of Homeless Animals. By participating in an active life, you can learn a lot of new things, meet interesting people and find something that will help you feel most needed and important in the world. After all, without your kindness this world will be worse.
In addition, a business that benefits not only you, but also others, will become the basis for self-esteem. It is equally important to correlate your own desires with possibilities. This will avoid severe disappointment if your dreams do not come true. After all, only one’s own victories and achievements can make a person proud and respect himself.
If you want to be the best, be a good daughter, a wonderful wife or girlfriend. Remember the birthday of all your loved ones and friends. Your congratulations will be a pleasant surprise for them and a wonderful sign of attention.
The best girl is a well-groomed girl
The best girl is always well-groomed and has clean hair and nails. Her clothes and shoes are clean and tidy. Any accessory emphasizes her beauty and uniqueness. The smile deserves special mention. It doesn’t just decorate, it refreshes and evokes positive emotions in everyone around. Only an optimist can overcome any adversity with a smile and give others the belief that everything will be fine. Optimists are valued at all times. It is not only pleasant to communicate with them, but also easier to live with. Be optimistic no matter what happens.
Remove negative qualities
To become the best person, fight the negative qualities that bother you and don’t like you. You need to love yourself with both your strengths and weaknesses, but this does not mean that you don’t need to fight what is unpleasant for both you and those around you. Never be jealous. Envy is a destructive feeling. It does not help you achieve what you want, but only poisons the soul and the atmosphere around you. When thinking about people who have achieved something in life, just evaluate what else you need to do to achieve what you want. Learn to value time, don’t waste it on trifles and nonsense. Let every minute bring benefit, joy and pleasure. And then there will be no time to think about those who managed to achieve more - more than you.
Better increase your own talents and skills, which will become useful on the path to your future success. After all, no one is stopping you from achieving success and serious achievements in life. So develop and act - everything is only in your hands.
Never discuss friends
If you want to become the best girl, never discuss your friends and good acquaintances behind their back. Just think about how unpleasant it is when someone you are close to discusses you with others. A true friend is always loyal, and if he is dissatisfied with something, he will say so directly, to your face. In any situation, always remain polite. If you stepped on your foot, pushed or raised your voice - rise above the situation, do not stoop to rudeness, swearing and insults. Control yourself and don't lose your composure.
Balance and self-control will adorn you and evoke sincere respect from the opposite sex. But there is no need to hide emotions; they should be shown when they are appropriate. This is especially important when communicating with the man you like. Only by showing emotions can you let him know that you care about him.
According to scientific findings, a person receives 10% of information through words, and the rest he understands through emotions and facial expressions. Therefore, do not deprive people who are important to you of the opportunity to get to know you better, be natural and relaxed. Naturalness makes a girl beautiful and unique.
At least once in your life you have heard that all people are individual and unique, and each person is the best in something. No one will argue with this, but you can always become the best for yourself, your man and those around you. The main thing is to understand that there is no limit to perfection, and you should not constantly strive for the ideal, forgetting that it is best and most correct to live today and now - to enjoy everything around you, to be positive, kind and sympathetic. Remember that every action, choice and decision you make affects the future and it depends only on you what it will be like.
Perfection is the only thing in a person that has no limit. How to become better yourself and stop being idle? Why do you want to grow despite stability? How to start trying, and not just pretending? If you have an insight that life is becoming unprepossessing or even going downhill, we begin to be on alert. We eliminate the shortcomings today using simple tips. By starting now, you will at least save precious years, and at maximum, you will become better!
How to become better
Live consciously
How can you become a better person if you are not aware of your thoughts and actions? We are not robots who live on autopilot. This is impossible, because blindly following the schedule erases the boundaries of the world. Mindfulness is the ability to understand everything around you and give it meaning.
Family relationships are not without meaning, and traveling to observe the world is also not without meaning. Likewise, it is important to reinforce daily activities with connections to why we are doing it. There is such a clever expression - cause-and-effect relationships. This is the law of the Universe that works between man and the world around him.
Value your own and other people's time
A phone call lasts for 40 minutes, instead of a short “Hello, how are you, what’s new?” Friends are constantly late for any meeting, although they agreed on 17:00. Disrespect for one's own and other people's time lives in many people. Lack of punctuality and brevity in actions create other bad habits. Disrespect for time is a manifestation of lack of composure, without which you will not go far in life. You can become a better person if you give importance to every minute of yourself and everyone else.
Don't focus only on yourself
To prevent a person from becoming disillusioned with the world, it is important to pay attention to those around him. Not everything revolves around the person himself - there are so many things around that require attention. Compassion is a personality strength that many people neglect. Charity and mutual assistance and support reveal inner potential.
Financial assistance to orphans, planting a tree in the yard or a cleanup in the park will not cause any harm. It is also important to listen to others. Advice from experienced people can bring undeniable benefits to someone who is just starting to develop. The understanding of the people around us lies in the philosophy of self-awareness.
Learn to be flexible in society
Does criticism destroy self-esteem and put moral pressure on you? You can't take everything to heart! It is normal that some people disagree with your opinion, challenge it, and, moreover, dissuade it. It is important to have your own opinion, which does not succumb to the judgments of others.
Listening to advice is one thing, but being putty in the wrong hands is unacceptable. Not everything should go to the person's expense! People may simply like to play with the emotions of others. If you show that it is not interesting, then over time they will fall behind.
Value yourself
How to become better when there is no feeling of self-love inside? Rejecting your life is a very strong decision, but rejecting yourself is detrimental. When a person has a love for his individuality, this feeling is reflected in his environment. After hard work, you can spend time in company with a light heart. Go to the cinema, sing karaoke, spend time at the spa - relaxation and encouragement for your efforts provide strong motivation. It’s worth telling yourself: “You are the one who can achieve success, and I believe in you. You have strength and you are a great fellow!” Such words out loud help reinforce self-confidence and not give up your position.
Saying and doing are inseparable things
Thoughtlessly saying “And I will have a big house, and I will have public recognition, and I will do this and that” is a stupid idea. This is familiar to many, and it can be periodically traced in ourselves. Reliability is a trait of a man of his word who does not throw himself into the wind. Reliable people are often looked up to by others and set as examples. It is important to develop will and character, which will speak of inner strength. It was said that the meeting would take place tomorrow, and then suddenly I decided not to - it was worth going and meeting the responsibility face to face. How long have you been talking about losing weight? A great reason to start it right now!
How to make yourself better
The desire to grow involves rebooting a mind that has been dormant for a long time. “Life goes on as usual” or “everything is fine with me”, and even more often “slowly” - this is what we hear every day from the people around us. You look at such a person and all the pain and depression that has been growing over the years is reflected in him. Of course, every day can't seem like a Disney fairy tale with rainbows and cotton candy - anything can happen. If this always continues, then you need to include the Sherlock Holmes method. Why not become a detective in your own investigation?
How to become better using the famous detective's method? Be attentive to details! By adhering to just two rules, a person can acquire that missing skill - concentration. So, what is the secret:
- There is no need to spread yourself over too much. It is enough to pay attention to one thing. How do errors occur? If you do something in a hurry, as they say, it becomes slack. It is difficult to retain important information in your mind if you are in two markets (many will understand).
- Emotions are our everything! How to become better if nerves constantly rule the show? Anxiety and many other negative phenomena destroy the holistic picture of the world. To think creatively, you need to embrace the positive side of yourself more openly. A pessimist always looks at the world worse than a positive one.
The ability to become a better person develops with just two ingredients.: great desire and perseverance. Without them, change will simply bypass the door and not knock on it. Now you need to take a sheet of paper and a pen. For the solemnity of the process, they must be beautiful (this is not unimportant) - this way the process will be official. It is important to write down the following points to adhere to on the path to a new “I”:
- Switch from frivolous goals to more important ones. At first the mind will be a little shocked, but there’s no way around it! Quit your job within the next few months for your dream job. Develop self-control - do not sit for hours in front of the TV or computer, but do yoga and read literature. In general, this is something we have been thinking about for a long time.
- Conduct a deep analysis of reality. Write things that you are not happy with and need to end with them. Next to each one write ways to solve the problem, replacing “this” with “other”.
- Write a step-by-step plan. Not to make a million in 3 years, but to describe how you can do it. Under the big words there should be stages of implementation. It is worth including as many resources as possible to make your dreams come true.
- Work on your shortcomings. What kills time? Not a trip to the forest to pick mushrooms (this, on the contrary, is a plus), but mindless sitting on the phone, playing the console until the night, aimless shopping trips. It is important to eliminate the stimuli that hypnotize us.
- Monitor the implementation of goals. It is important to record each result in a diary and compare it with each other. How to become better if you don’t understand what stage you are at now? It's nice to know that a month ago we were at the foot of the mountain, and today we are almost at the ridge.
How to become better? Activate your consciousness to the maximum and do not let go of this desire until the bitter end! The tips offered above will help you just get started, despite the obstacles. Surely, you won’t use all of them, but you definitely won’t stay in the same place. If you liked the article, share it with your friends and start a new stage of life together.
The best woman does not have to be beautiful. Otherwise, everyone who can afford it has had plastic surgery. And there would be too many ideal female representatives in the world.
The best woman in the world must be beautiful with inner beauty, this is what distinguishes her from others. Such a lady has a rich inner world, a wide range of interests, favorite activities and hobbies. She will never become emotionally dependent on anyone, including a man, since she already has a lot to do.
Give yourself a secret
The best woman is always mysterious. She has her own secret, which she sacredly keeps. It could be anything: an innocent talisman that no one knows about; passion; bright talent. It is especially important that this secret remains unsolved for as long as possible. This mystery fascinates men. Essentially hunters, representatives of the stronger sex passionately desire to unravel all the secrets and riddles in the lady who interests him.
If a man already knows everything about you, then come up with this secret for yourself. The best woman cannot but have any secret. You shouldn’t go all out right away, just find yourself a new activity, for example, dancing, and then demonstrate your skills to the man.
The mystery in a woman is also called the zest. You need to demonstrate your zest from time to time. You can't invent a secret that doesn't exist. Over time, those around you will understand that there is no zest in you, and all your mystery is nothing more than a bluff.
Be independent
The best woman in the world is independent, but at the same time she can and should be weak. Such women know how to rely on their partner. Men like to be strong and protect weak women. Well, why deprive them of this pleasure?
The ideal woman always maintains her self-esteem. She will never allow herself to pursue a man. It is the prerogative of the stronger sex to achieve the woman of your dreams. Even if you are ready to fall into his arms right now, you should not demonstrate it.
The best woman never limits the freedom of her partner. She
never interferes with a man’s desire to be alone. If he needs personal time, then you should not interfere with this. Such behavior can be regarded as the highest manifestation of mutual understanding and love.
Love yourself
The best woman values herself and maintains self-confidence under any circumstances. She knows how to accept compliments, knowing that they are true.
And the best woman in the world loves her body and takes care of her health. Taking care of her own appearance shows her self-respect.
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