It is believed that women are more attached to their family than men, and that it is women who tend to forgive a lot in the name of preserving the family and relationships. But in reality, it happens that the wife wants to leave, despite the years spent together, the children, the shared life.
She announces that she is leaving, and life stops, the world around her collapses. The husband remains among the ruins and does not know what to do, let his wife go or fight for her. What should I do if she has announced her decision and is packing her things, or if she has already left?
Let go... And then how to live? How to live on your own where you lived with her for more than one year? How to have breakfast and dinner alone when you're used to being with her? What to do if the wife left with the child, and the husband and father were left alone with wallpaper painted by the hand of their son or daughter and the smell of the top of a child’s head on their shirt?
There is no need to cut off your wife’s phone, write messages to her begging her to return or threaten to harm herself or her wife. It's incredibly annoying and off-putting.
There is also no need to inform parents on either side, friends, neighbors, relatives about her departure and ask them to influence the wife’s decision. If she deems it necessary, she will inform them herself. And a request to solve family problems coming from an adult man is naive, ridiculous and absurd.
And in no case should you turn her children against the mother. It's women who don't forgive. And children, by the way, almost always take the mother’s position, so the father’s words will only turn the children against him.
All these actions will deepen the gap between spouses.
The wife is going nowhere
Such decisions are made spontaneously. Last night or even this morning she was not going anywhere, she behaved as usual. It seemed like they weren’t even arguing. And just a few hours later, she picks up her things and leaves, or even just runs away without her things.
The reasons for such a demarche can be very different:
- a quarrel with her husband, and not necessarily recent, perhaps this quarrel was last week or even last month, the wife just accumulated negative emotions and overwhelmed her;
- quarrel with in-laws; Often this is the sin of the husband's mothers and sisters - mother-in-law and sister-in-law, who do not hesitate to emphasize the real and imaginary merits of their son and brother and the insignificance of his chosen one;
- husband's suspicions of cheating.
If this is exactly the situation, then the family is in virtually no danger. The wife may spend the night with her parents, friend or neighbor, cool down, cry, sort out her grievances and come to the conclusion that she acted recklessly. She will miss her husband and family life, and will decide to return. In this case, the husband has the task of analyzing the reasons for his wife’s departure and taking measures to eliminate such reasons.
If the cause was a personal quarrel, then it is necessary to discuss the reason for this quarrel and find a way to neutralize it.
If the reason was a quarrel between the wife and her husband’s relatives, then it is necessary to set priorities once and for all. A married man's family is his wife and his children. Neither mother, nor father, nor sisters and brothers should interfere in his family life. Sometimes a man is required to take a firm position and remove his relatives from interfering in his relationship with his wife. If a man is not ready for this, he needs not a wife, but a mother. In such a situation, the best solution would be divorce. It will be difficult for the wife at first, but it will free her from the oppression of her husband’s relatives.
If the reason for the wife’s immediate departure is her suspicions about her husband’s infidelity, then he should convince his wife of his fidelity. Even if a relationship with a stranger took place, admitting to it is paving the way to divorce.
You should not subsequently reproach your wife for her actions. She then left in strong emotions, which was partly the fault of her husband himself. You also need to admit your mistakes where only a woman’s mistakes are obvious to most.
The wife prepared an “escape route”
If a wife wants to go to a pre-prepared place, then getting her back is almost impossible. She has already decided everything.
This means that the woman had been preparing for more than one day to leave her family. Every step was difficult for her, but she still decided.
Moreover, she first prepared mentally, since almost every woman always finds it difficult to leave her usual place of residence, to leave her husband whom she loved and cared for. But if she goes for it, then her decision is firm and balanced, and the reasons for the decision are very, very serious and significant.
In this case, the wife must be released. Nothing will help, neither requests nor arguments. No thunderstorms, no gifts, no whole army of friends and family in the support group.
She will leave, settle in a new place, and perhaps begin divorce proceedings. Emotions will subside and the woman will be ready for a constructive conversation.
During this time, a man can get to know his wife again. He also had time to think about the current situation, understand whether he wanted his wife back, and think about ways to approach her.
You need to understand that parting changes a person, and a woman who has outwardly remained virtually unchanged is now different in soul and heart.
If during this time a woman has not created a new family or at least entered into a new relationship, her abandoned husband has a chance of reunification.
If a woman is in a new relationship and is happy in it, then the likelihood of her returning to her ex-husband tends to zero.
Wife leaves for someone else
If a wife wants to leave for someone else, then usually the man backs down. A picture of adultery is drawn in his imagination, and he is overwhelmed by feelings of jealousy, annoyance, and hatred.
Stalking your wife and trying to get her new boyfriend to “talk” with you usually does not lead to anything good. After a series of showdowns, scandals and fights, the wife will finally be convinced that she did the right thing by leaving the family.
If a wife announces that she is leaving for another man, this can mean one of two things:
- or she really found another man for herself and is leaving for him,
- or she says this to her husband on purpose, realizing that she will push him away and force him to accept her decision to separate.
In the first case, a man needs to understand that even if he loves his wife very much and returns her to the family, it will be very difficult for him to live with the thought of her relationship with another. Such families almost always break up a second time, because women, voluntarily or unwittingly, compare their husbands with their lovers, and the comparison is not always in favor of the first, and husbands go crazy with jealousy and suspicion, believing that they left for another once, so that it prevents them from leaving again and again. again to another man?
In the second case, the chances of getting your wife back are high. After all, such a lie shows that she is not indifferent to the man; by telling him about an imaginary lover, the wife wants to hurt him or make him jealous. This is the clearest example of that very female logic about which many anecdotes are written. With this behavior she tries to “hit” her husband and tie him to her. By leaving, she tries to strengthen her marriage.
Usually this is done by young or immature psychologically and emotionally women who perceive marriage as a game or a sports competition.
It is difficult to live with them, but many men are attracted to the inconstancy and unpredictability of their wives. They say about such people that they never thought of divorcing them, but they wanted to strangle them every day.
The wife wants to leave with the child
If it turns out that the wife wants to leave with the child, then it is necessary to understand what rights the father has. Women often manipulate children and use them as an instrument of punishment for an abandoned husband or as a tool to manipulate him.
The rights of parents are equal, therefore both mother and father have the same rights to live with their child temporarily or permanently, communicate with him fully, participate in his life according to their own understanding and discretion, raise the child, develop him and educate him.
Neither parent has the right in any way to prevent the other parent from seeing his son or daughter when they both want it, communicating with him, or taking him to live with him. Such situations can easily be appealed in court. The courts previously clearly sided with the mother, practically depriving the father of the opportunity to somehow realize his paternal status. Now courts are increasingly taking the side of fathers and protecting their rights in every possible way.
But still, first it is worth resolving the matter peacefully, and not turning the child and his life into a subject of dispute between two adults who are offended by each other.
A child should not be associated with a ring in which two ex-spouses compete.
Moreover, if the wife goes to such conditions where the child is in danger, a threat is created to his life or health, full education and development, where the child may be subjected to sexual or psychological violence, then the father needs to act immediately and decisively.
Here we are already talking about fulfilling a father’s duty, which involves creating normal living conditions for the child.
Typically, women take into account the interests of the child in their plans. But sometimes they are guided only by their needs.
This happens if a woman is strongly and blindly attracted to some man, and in her family she had a very even emotional background. Then passion outweighs mother's love. The new chosen one may have an extremely negative attitude towards the child, but this does not stop the mother.
Also, sometimes women become dependent on potent substances, gambling, religion, which also dulls their maternal instinct.
If this happens, the father is obliged to save the child.
If the answer is yes, you need to take action. Don’t put off your wife’s return for too long, because she may get used to life without you or find someone else. Give it a day or two to cool down and then begin the return operation.
Understand the reasons why she left. Remember all her comments, complaints and accusations over the past month. Most often, women leave due to lack of attention or laziness of their husband. Use what you learn to show how you have changed.
Start communicating with her. If she doesn't want to see you, don't give up trying to contact her. Send a bouquet of flowers through a delivery service, send sweet SMS messages, drop apology letters under the door, make a phone call. Show that you regret your breakup and want to make things right.
When she changes her anger to mercy, show the changes in your life. For example, if she blamed you for being inattentive, start giving her compliments and other signs of attention. If you find a better job, tell her about it, promise that now you will live better.
Don't repeat past mistakes when she comes back to you. She won't keep coming back, so don't give her a reason to leave. Try to communicate more, talk through problems, look for ways to solve them, and help her around the house.
How to live without a wife
But if you understand that you won’t be able to get your wife back or you don’t want to return to family life, you need to learn to live alone. Don’t give in to despondency and don’t get depressed, because life doesn’t end there.
Don't try to wash your grief down with alcohol. It is in this situation that some men drink too much and become alcoholics, do not stoop to this. It is better to give up alcoholic beverages for a while in order to look at what is happening soberly and improve your life.
Fill your free time. Take time to go fishing, fix your car, clean out your garage, re-read your favorite books or play computer games. This way you will not leave yourself time to think about what is happening and experience the pain of losing the woman you love.
Get out into people, don't close yourself off. When a little time has passed and you feel the strength to start a new relationship, do not be afraid of getting burned. Do not transfer past grievances and experiences onto other women. After all, it is not at all necessary that history will repeat itself. Meet, communicate, fall in love and learn to enjoy relationships.
Our home is our fortress. And it’s very painful when he is handed over to the enemy by the person closest to him – his own wife. It’s not easy to get over the fact that your wife has left for someone else, but there is no other way out. Fate sends only those trials that a person is able to survive and only in such a way as to provide the maximum opportunity for further development.
A Serious Lesson
Let's start by recognizing the seriousness of the situation. Yes, everything happens not in a dream, but in reality. Life teaches a serious and painful lesson only when it is necessary to urgently and radically change your aspirations, goals, and values. Relationships are maintained by two people, both a woman and a man. The gap indicates serious mistakes on the part of both.
Time to think about what mistakes were made. Sometimes leaving is a demonstration of a last desperate attempt to attract attention. In this case, it makes sense to gather your thoughts and analyze the situation. Gradually changing your behavior can restore family balance. After all, for this you don’t need much - to remember what you were like when you met, and how you were able to conquer the girl.
If a woman has finally left home, having packed her things, it is worth recognizing that a new round of life’s journey begins, in which there is no place for long-standing attachment to her spouse. As difficult as it is to admit, accusations will not help solve or return anything. It's not a matter of who is more to blame, the husband or the wife. The point is how to survive a difficult situation psychologically, physically and financially.
How to behave
You will have to determine your line of behavior in relation to yourself, your wife and your environment.
- To yourself. We immediately discard the pity. The first emotional outburst is well removed by hard physical labor or at least long workouts in the gym. Even if you haven't been there before, it's a great reason to lead a healthy lifestyle.
It is worth loading yourself not only physically, but also mentally. Additional shifts and part-time jobs are appropriate in this case. In addition, it is wise to check your financial situation. Who is the property registered to? The status of accounts and payments, if you have not previously maintained them, also requires attention. If you need to look for new housing, the search will help occupy your consciousness with practical problems and help your subconscious mind accept the fact of betrayal, begin to react more calmly, adequately, and restore your zest for life.
- To my wife. There is no point in blaming, begging or hating. She is an independent person who takes care of her needs first. This is fine. Are you not suitable for her? So in this case, it doesn’t suit you, everything is for the better. But it’s worth resolving material issues; if you have children, discuss the possibility of co-parenting, your place in their lives. It is better to behave calmly, kindly, accurately stipulate the time of meetings, the amount of material participation, making the divorce process itself civilized. There is no point in leaving the enemy behind your back; reasonable people will always find how to solve common problems diplomatically.
- Environment. Oddly enough, this is where most of the problems lie. Mutual friends begin to divide into “his” and “hers” and begin to try to reconcile the parties, most often in a rude and primitive manner. In the course of communication, you can sometimes discover shocking facts, dirty and completely unnecessary. There are two ways out. You can leave for a long time, changing your life completely, and hiding from troubles with a banal escape. It may not sound attractive, but it saves a lot on my husband’s nerves. The second way out for yourself is to boldly take a step towards troubles, understand the real attitude of your loved ones towards you, and begin to build a life without old illusions. It will not be easy to regain calm; every day will be a reminder of the events that took place. This option sounds noble, but it takes up a lot of internal resources, which you need to be prepared for.
How to turn back time
Is it worth returning? Perhaps the husband’s problem is the wrong choice of his half, especially if less than 5 years have passed since the wedding. At the stage of courtship, people do not always open up completely; it takes years to fully understand the situation. Probably, some preliminary signals for oneself had already entered consciousness, although they were studiously ignored. Now everything has become clear and there is nothing left to do but take into account the mistakes made, and not return the person with whom you are not destined to become a couple for completely objective reasons.
It’s another matter if the wife left her husband for another man after ten years of living peacefully together. Most likely, such a decision was not made lightly, was well thought out, and the reasons for it were significant.
You shouldn’t focus on getting back the person who voluntarily left your life. The choice has been made and there is nothing to do. He can change, but not through lamentations, demands or lengthy proceedings.
Usually, a decent woman needs not just one reason for cheating, but a whole complex of unmet needs. You can try to calmly discuss what happened, but the results are rarely positive. At such a moment, the weaker sex mixes all the negativity from family life with a feeling of guilt from their behavior, and it is impossible to find clear answers. A man is also rarely able to reason sensibly, filled with misunderstanding and resentment. Sometimes, over time, couples meet, communicate, understand each other, and the relationship begins anew. But this will be a completely different relationship, actually a new life for new people.
Dream
Things are completely different if the wife left for another man in a dream. It’s unpleasant to experience such emotions and you won’t be in a good mood in the morning, but dream books give quite optimistic forecasts for the future for such couples.
Our subconscious in a dream spills out the most incredible things. These could be unconscious desires, fears, aspirations, or childhood memories that are applied to people in today's life. It's not easy to understand them. Can:
- Use dream books. In the old days, entire clans were involved in compiling them, passing on the accumulated experience as an inheritance. They fairly correctly reflect the characteristics of the human psyche, but do not keep up with the latest changes. The age of computer technology has made serious adjustments; unrealistic images and details often appear in dreams.
There are modern dream books compiled by psychologists, but professional collections are extremely rare. It is much more beneficial to work with individual consultations than to make your achievements available to a wide range of the public. When everyone finds out what they really saw in their dreams, who will come to their office? So often on book shelves there are dream books compiled by amateurs or ordinary charlatans who have distorted old publications in a modern manner and added their wild imagination.
Dream books on the Internet have little in common with the real interpretation of what happens in a dream.
- Seek help from a psychotherapist or psychologist who is interested in dream interpretation. Of course, you will have to pay for several sessions and introduce the specialist to some aspects of your personal life, but the result will be much more accurate. They do not use dream books, but they treat information received in a dream carefully and attentively.
- People's specialists. Purchased dream books are often used. True healers for many generations are now a rarity. You should ask local residents before the session how many years ago this expert appeared, and only then give your money for the interpretation of your wife’s actions in a dream and draw any conclusions from their information.
In general, psychologists argue that the interpretation of dreams is largely individual in nature and requires close communication with the client, which dream books cannot provide.
Dream books assure that in reality there is no threat of divorce after such a dream. Some details may indicate a deterioration in the relationship - a decrease in the intensity of passions, immersion in the hustle and bustle of everyday life, and you should think about the resumption of emotional coloring. But more often, experiencing a wife’s betrayal in a dream indicates the strength of the husband’s feelings and caring attitude towards each other. Especially if in a dream a man is trying to get his woman back.
So you shouldn’t do anything special for yourself after such a dream. All you have to do is reach out to your other half and kiss them tenderly.
Thousands of manuals have been written about ways to win the man of your dreams, but few people are interested in the fact that a satellite taken by storm still has to be kept.
Do not hurry
Especially immediately after meeting. Do not rush to quickly develop your relationship, move on to intimacy, talk to him about the wedding, children, do not rush to make common plans for the future, etc. This almost always frightens the chosen one very much if you do this right away, at the beginning of your relationship.
Surprise
You can unexpectedly give him a romantic dinner, gather his old friends, take him to some beautiful place, give him a gift for no reason, etc. The element of surprise plays a big role in such cases. 
Don't argue
Men always think that they are right, so arguing with them is a useless hassle. Of course, there is a chance that you will convince him, but at what cost will you get all this! If you still categorically do not want to agree with him, try to talk calmly without turning the conversation into shouting.
LISTEN to him, understand why he thinks this way. Maybe he really is right. If not, then give your reasons, justifying them logically.
“I think so and so, and I don’t care!”, “I know I’m right!” - such phrases for a man are similar to a red rag for a bull.
Perhaps a mutual friend, the Internet, etc. will help you resolve the issue.
Praise
Men also love with their ears, which is why they smile so sweetly when they are told nice things. BUT! This must be done appropriately. You can compare this to dog training: done - get a treat! The same applies to men: praise must be deserved, otherwise he will lose that same incentive.
If you do everything competently and cunningly, your chosen one will do all the work with great enthusiasm! 
Give me freedom
You don't need to keep it near you all the time. Don’t follow your chosen one, don’t read his correspondence, don’t eavesdrop on his conversations... However, sometimes you can deviate from these rules: if you want to know everything about him, do it quietly and infrequently.
Also, you should not prevent him from meeting with friends, because often they truly relax with their souls (interesting conversations, humor that is relevant to their circle, etc.).
BUT! Don't give him any reason to think that you don't care about him, otherwise he will start doing stupid things to spite you.
Develop yourself
If you are a versatile person, he will always be interested in you. Men are very flattered when they try to develop at their expense: you can ask him to teach you how to drive a car, paint walls, or maybe even save money...
BUT! Don't show off that you can do something better. This could humiliate him.
Don't compare with others
Many people think that comparison should create motivation for self-improvement, but this is not the case. A man may simply be offended. Although... You can compare, but from a positive perspective: “You are stronger...”, “You are more beautiful...”, “You do better...”, etc.
Support
You are his chosen one, and the first thing he will want to do is find solace with you. If you can reassure him from time to time, encourage him and look for ways out of difficult situations together, have no doubt - you will mean a lot to him.
Is it possible to stop a married man?
Almost every girl who begins a relationship with a married man understands that she is doing wrong, but secretly consoles herself with the thought that she will be the one who will be able to become “his only one.” Most likely, her chosen one has already told her how bad everything is in their family, that there is no love or passion left, and only the child, business, the thought that the sick mother will be very upset, etc. are holding him back.
Before you think about whether it is possible to keep a married man, you should ask yourself: do you need it?
Spending time in depressing anticipation, being together but not being a couple, living life in oppressive uncertainty, risking forever remaining in the hopeless status of a mistress, being constantly “in the background,” not caring about your future.
The fact remains that only a small number of men leave their families and children for their new love.
There is only one conclusion here: from the very beginning you should not start any love relationships with married men if you do not want to remain with a broken heart or torment yourself all your life with thoughts that you contributed to the destruction of the family (of any kind). 
Stop all his attempts to hit on you (flirting, backhanded compliments, etc.). If a relationship does begin, you should abandon it as soon as possible. Remember the “boomerang effect”. And remember: no matter how quickly passion flares up, it can fade away just as quickly, so don’t rush headlong into the pool.
Joke on topic:
It is difficult, very difficult to prove to your ex-lover who has become your wife that married men never cheat on their wives.
How to keep a guy
Forever
If you want to stay with this person for the rest of your life, work on the relationship right away.
After sex
What happened, happened. We live in a world where sexual relations are losing their previously inherent morality. We can say it differently: partners make love less and less often, and more and more often simply have sexual intercourse. However, this does not mean that you need to immediately “jump into bed” with your new chosen one.
In most cases, men immediately lose interest in the “easy victim”. But at the same time, you shouldn’t make him wait too long if you don’t want him to simultaneously look for sexual satisfaction elsewhere.
After spending a night together, girls often make mistakes that can scare away a guy.In most cases (depending on the character of the man) you cannot:
- talk about marriage and serious relationships;
- ask how many partners he had before you;
- talk about your sexual experience (in the sense: “But Petka and I...!”);
- compare him with others (“You are better and more resilient than so-and-so” - you must admit, a dubious compliment);
- insist that he say whether he liked it (if - yes, don’t doubt it - he will show it with all his appearance).
After everything has happened, do not impose yourself on the guy, but also do not act as if you are indifferent to the outcome of his decision about your subsequent meetings.
If he wants to break up
First, you need to remind him how good it was for you the entire time you were together. You should not accompany your words with hysterics, violent emotions, sobs, etc. All this can cause irritation and your conversation will quickly end.
A sincere smile generated by memories, light strokes on the arm and selection of important moments in the story - this is all that is needed for a guy to think about whether he should lose you.
Be sure to find out in a conversation what exactly doesn’t suit him about you and your relationship, convince him that you are ready to change. After that, most likely, he will give your future a second chance.
Younger than yourself
Remember a few rules:
Older than yourself
No matter what the difference in your age is, if you do not diversify yourself, then he will most likely become bored with you sooner or later. Find out the latest news, be interested in his work, the health of his parents, ask him to teach you something he knows well, etc.
BUT! Never try to show such a man that you are smarter; you don’t need to teach him about life, nag him, or argue.
If you disagree with him on some issue, sit down and talk calmly, but you need to do this carefully (“Honey, don’t be mad at me, but I don’t understand why you think that way...”).
During the conversation, you can present your arguments, and in the end, perhaps, you will be able to convince him if you yourself have not yet agreed with him.
Don't be selfish
Accept his lifestyle too. Don’t think only about your desires, dreams and habits, because there are two of you. Look for compromises, make concessions, but don’t completely forget about yourself.
Create home comfort 
By the time he comes home from work, clean up the apartment, prepare a delicious dinner, and tidy up yourself and the children. If he arrives in a bad mood, support and encourage him.
Show your love. Do not skimp on pleasant words, kindness, tenderness, and then your man will look forward to the moment when he returns home to the woman he loves.
Try to live up to his ideal woman
But at the same time remain a mystery. This applies to behavior, your attitude towards him, family position, and, of course, appearance. Don’t consider the changes you need to make for the sake of your beloved guy to be humiliating, because it’s all just for your happiness.
BUT! do not forget about that very zest that should remain in every woman - do not bend completely, otherwise you will become too predictable for him, and he will lose interest in you.
Experiment with sex
Intimate life is far from unimportant for a man. So surprise, delight, intrigue, excite, excite him.
If he is interested in you in bed, the likelihood that he will look “to the left” is minimized.
The most cunning women can even manipulate their partner through sex. Not in the sense of: “You’ll give it to me,” but in this sense: you did it nicely - you can hint at something. During periods of bliss, men are very pliable.
Know how to quarrel 
Try to control yourself: don’t say offensive things, don’t try to insult or humiliate your partner, don’t call him names or provoke him to do so. If you feel like you are on the verge of a breakdown, it is better to go into the room and ask them to calm you down a little.
Communicate, but don't bother
If suddenly he needs to go somewhere for a relatively long time, there is no need to call him very often. However, you need to periodically remind yourself, because keeping a guy at a distance is quite difficult. It is very important to do this competently: to be unobtrusive, playful, intriguing.
So, for half a day you can periodically send him tender SMS, then suddenly disappear: your boyfriend will get worried and will definitely call back to find out if everything is okay with you.
As an option, you can send him your photographs (possibly of an erotic nature). When talking on the phone, be an interesting conversationalist. You don’t need to talk all the time for 10 minutes about how much you miss him and how much you love him.
Video: How to keep a man forever
To win a man, women have their own tricks. But there are whole manuals for this. Naturally, conquering a man is only half the battle; you need to somehow keep him near you. It's no secret that long-term relationships between a man and a woman sometimes end in separation and divorce. There are also betrayals that do not depend on you, women.
However, in most cases, everything is in your hands: you yourself can fight for your happiness. If you really love your man and parting with him will be a great loss for you, then you definitely need the help of a specialist who will tell you how to keep your loved one close.
Of course, for all women there is no definite answer to this question, since each woman, and the situations that lead to separation, are different. According to family psychologists, any woman can both push away and hold her chosen one. Psychologists have developed general advice for women on how to keep a man. Here are some of them.
1. You need to take care of yourself.
Once married, most women begin to relax. Initially, women justify this behavior by saying that they are on maternity leave and simply do not have time to take care of themselves. However, as practice shows, many women continue to treat their appearance the same way after maternity leave. During maternity leave, they have already become accustomed to the excess weight they have gained, cellulite becomes familiar to them, and some even refuse beauty salons and makeup - why waste time and money on this when my husband loves me like that? Unfortunately, this is not the best way to keep your loved one close to you. Over time, he begins to look at such a woman not as his wife, but as a piece of home furniture. That is why you should always remember that first of all you are a woman!
2. Pay attention to your clothes.
Underwear especially plays a role here. A man should constantly feel the feeling that you are trying to be constantly attractive to him. And he must constantly feel this.
3. Be diverse.
Every person needs something new from time to time. After all, although constant is good, it becomes boring very quickly. Therefore, change something in your appearance. Moreover, you shouldn’t radically change, but you shouldn’t neglect it either. Change your hairstyle, makeup, hair color, manicure and other little things.
4. The conqueror instinct for a man is the main thing.
Following this statement, constantly make him try to conquer you again.
5. Become more significant in his eyes.
Artificially inflate your price. To do this, change something in yourself. And you shouldn’t be afraid to experiment. In order to keep the man of your dreams near you, for him you must become the ideal and irreplaceable woman that many men dream of.
6. Make him jealous.
Sometimes a man needs to give a reason for jealousy, but do not overdo it. Let it be a minor one, but still a reason. The main thing to remember here is that a lot of all kinds of stupid things and even crimes are committed because of jealousy. - this does not mean that he needs to cheat. It is enough to simply let your chosen one know that he is not the only one and other men are also interested in you. In this case, he will definitely try to keep you near him.
7. You shouldn’t love your husband too much.
One rule should be the main thing for you: you can only love yourself too much. Only in this case you will experience much less disappointment. If a woman dissolves in a man because of it, then they don’t like it. Men like women who have self-esteem and character.
8. Home comfort.
A man should go home with anticipation and pleasure. Prepare a delicious dinner, do not burden him with your problems until he tells you about his own, if any arose during the day.
9. Intrigue your loved one.
In order to keep your loved one close to you, you shouldn’t reveal yourself completely to him. Let him constantly look for riddles from you. You must prove to him that you still have something unknown to him. Try to raise a lot of questions in his head that he will constantly look for answers to. Give him hope that you will open up to him soon. But this is not at all necessary.
This is quite simple to do: create some understatement. Start intriguing him over the phone with the fact that you have learned something about him, and then abruptly end the conversation, saying that they are calling you on the second line and you will only be able to talk to him in the evening. The main thing is to make a man languish with anticipation. Keep him in the dark for as long as possible, and then you can tell him something stupid from his childhood, like that he was afraid of frogs.
Of course, these tips on how to keep a man should be used only as needed. If you abuse them, they will simply stop believing you.
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